Identifying fetishists - Page 2

Histiletto · 28th June 2009, 15:50

LABELS! You know your druthers. Why should it be any concern to anyone else? So what in being a guy, I intensely want to wear stiletto court shoes all the time: like while exercising, playing basketball, on the beach, hiking, mountain climbing, swimming, at social functions, driving, or in bed just to name a few. Stilettos may not be appropriate for all activities, but that doesn't stop me from wanting to wear them. If this puts me in the fetish column or row then so be it. I don't care. I'm me, not you. So take your labelling and put it somewhere that it will do some good.

Society wants men to be men. Then stand up in your stilletos an assert your right to choose. Once society is aware of how massive the desire from men to wear high heels actually is, the transition in attitude would happen like night and day with some shadow hold-outs. Even women, who are now socially accepted heelers, continue to receive flak from those who oppose the wearing of high heels. Again, what business is it of anyone elses, as long as I can perform my abilites to complete the objectives, even if it means you're on your stiletto heeled feet all the time? It may be just a matter of conditioning and learning the limitations for the activities that you will be doing.

Anyone want to meet for a game of high heel basketball? We will probably have to play on an outdoor court, due to the wood flooring of most inside courts. This invitaton to play is for all heelers. Non-heelers could come, watch, and cheer though. I'm going to present this activity in the real life thread, also.

PatentHeel · 28th June 2009, 18:48

I'd love to contribute to this thread but I struggle to describe my feelings towards heels.

Spikey Dan · 1st July 2009, 10:50

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alsheels

I agree with Chantal.
Wear something different outside the norm and the label is attached faster than light.

There are many materials used that feel good whether of the sex inspiring feel or of just good quality a nice feel that is not a sex object. The labeling from the media helps to sell the paper or magazine, just because only a minority of people are more into wearing very high heels, leather, PVC etc in an every day sense (apart from bikers or rain coats in the rain) they are the unusual.
We the guys here at HHP are in that list, but is it a fetish? -
ONLY if you need it to get your rocks off and that part is not a requirement to be here.
HHP is not a sex site! and the mods have done a good job recently having a spring clean.

Mini rant done

Al

What, The HHP Thought Police hasn't kicked out and banned the OP for this post. You boys are slipping.

Trolldeg · 1st July 2009, 16:43

There are two types of fetishes, a fetish in a freudian sense (which most people here seem to think is the only type), and a fetish in a marxist sense (Valerie Steele writes about this).

Chantal · 1st July 2009, 21:09

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trolldeg

There are two types of fetishes, a fetish in a freudian sense (which most people here seem to think is the only type), and a fetish in a marxist sense (Valerie Steele writes about this).

LOL, you lost me.... care to explain a bit further?

Dr. Shoe · 3rd July 2009, 17:47

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spikey Dan

What, The HHP Thought Police hasn't kicked out and banned the OP for this post. You boys are slipping.

I think you will find that the "original poster" raised a very interesting point that is worthy of discussion.

Us "thought police" have no problems with people saying that they like to wear heels but when people tell us in graphic detail what they do when wearing heels then we delete their posts. We then ban them when they start abusing us for our decision.

I am sorry but this is not a democracy and it does clearly state in the rules that no member is allowed to abuse another member, whether they be a moderator or not!

FXHH · 3rd July 2009, 19:34

well a lot of good points made, and not going to start quoting every one either wise it will be one loooooooooooong post!!
so will try stick to the original post/point

just couz a woman wears

Quote:

5+ inch patent stilettos

to me would not indicate a fetish, however seeing a a woman in

Quote:

5+ inch patent stilettos

does appeal to my fetish

not every one see things in the same light

however, this site has helped me understand myself and the other facets of HH, however could all be seen as part of my fetish for HH!!

will give you another example, wife loves HH, however it is not a turn on for her, and that is exactly what a fetish is!!

yes there are those out there, men and woman who do have fetish for HH!!
however not every one

that lady in the +5 HH could of been doing to appeal to men with with the swing, the walk .....................or any number of other reasons, incl hight!!

Quote:

It's also stimulating to see a beautiful women in a great pair of shoes walking the walk of seduction with her hips swaying in a hypnotic smooth motion that looks like she is gliding.

agree with you on the above, great sight

bootlover66 · 3rd July 2009, 20:20

Hi

this brings me to a general question:

a woman on 5" stiletto heels is... fashionalble? daring? ???
a man on 5" stiletto heels is... a fetishist???

I don't think that it is so easy. However, many women, who wear heels, are looped upon as hoo..ers. So they also face problems with "society" (whoever this is).

My opinion: I completely agree with Chantal. Fetishists suffer under absence of their fetish. Maybe many of us have a "passion".

Sorry for my simple engish

Joerg

Dr. Shoe · 4th July 2009, 06:01

Quote:

Originally Posted by FXHH

will give you another example, wife loves HH, however it is not a turn on for her, and that is exactly what a fetish is!!

Yes, they probably don't but I am pretty sure that they make her feel good about herself otherwise she wouldn't wear them. The main reason I wear heels is because they make me feel good about myself...

FXHH · 6th July 2009, 05:11

Quote:

4th July 2009 06:01 Dr. Shoe Quote:
Originally Posted by FXHH http://www.hhplace.org/styles/redcar...s/viewpost.gif
will give you another example, wife loves HH, however it is not a turn on for her, and that is exactly what a fetish is!!

Yes, they probably don't but I am pretty sure that they make her feel good about herself otherwise she wouldn't wear them. The main reason I wear heels is because they make me feel good about myself...

yep spot on, asked her why??? now before posting!!

here reply was very close to the above!!

she likes the way it looks, and makes her feel sexy!! witch I agree equates to making her feel good about herself!!

any case feel very lucky that the wife and self can share a passion for heels the way we do, each one of us in our own way!!

28th June 2009, 15:50	#11 (permalink)
Histiletto I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: United States - Utah Posts: 901 Thanks: 73 Thanked 157 Times in 106 Posts I am Male Rep Power: 14	Re: Identifying fetishists LABELS! You know your druthers. Why should it be any concern to anyone else? So what in being a guy, I intensely want to wear stiletto court shoes all the time: like while exercising, playing basketball, on the beach, hiking, mountain climbing, swimming, at social functions, driving, or in bed just to name a few. Stilettos may not be appropriate for all activities, but that doesn't stop me from wanting to wear them. If this puts me in the fetish column or row then so be it. I don't care. I'm me, not you. So take your labelling and put it somewhere that it will do some good. Society wants men to be men. Then stand up in your stilletos an assert your right to choose. Once society is aware of how massive the desire from men to wear high heels actually is, the transition in attitude would happen like night and day with some shadow hold-outs. Even women, who are now socially accepted heelers, continue to receive flak from those who oppose the wearing of high heels. Again, what business is it of anyone elses, as long as I can perform my abilites to complete the objectives, even if it means you're on your stiletto heeled feet all the time? It may be just a matter of conditioning and learning the limitations for the activities that you will be doing. Anyone want to meet for a game of high heel basketball? We will probably have to play on an outdoor court, due to the wood flooring of most inside courts. This invitaton to play is for all heelers. Non-heelers could come, watch, and cheer though. I'm going to present this activity in the real life thread, also.

28th June 2009, 18:48	#12 (permalink)
PatentHeel I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Merseyside, England Posts: 976 Thanks: 71 Thanked 88 Times in 49 Posts I am Male Rep Power: 12	Re: Identifying fetishists I'd love to contribute to this thread but I struggle to describe my feelings towards heels.

1st July 2009, 16:43	#14 (permalink)
Trolldeg I'm a Gold Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: sweden Age: 30 Posts: 1,426 Thanks: 11 Thanked 43 Times in 22 Posts I am Male Rep Power: 0	Re: Identifying fetishists There are two types of fetishes, a fetish in a freudian sense (which most people here seem to think is the only type), and a fetish in a marxist sense (Valerie Steele writes about this).

3rd July 2009, 20:20	#18 (permalink)
bootlover66 I'm a Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Germany Age: 44 Posts: 10 Thanks: 5 Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts I am Male Rep Power: 4	Re: Identifying fetishists Hi this brings me to a general question: a woman on 5" stiletto heels is... fashionalble? daring? ??? a man on 5" stiletto heels is... a fetishist??? I don't think that it is so easy. However, many women, who wear heels, are looped upon as hoo..ers. So they also face problems with "society" (whoever this is). My opinion: I completely agree with Chantal. Fetishists suffer under absence of their fetish. Maybe many of us have a "passion". Sorry for my simple engish Joerg

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