Why do I enjoy some high-heel styles?

rainbow6562004 · 20th February 2005, 19:01

Some answers:
1) Having had a mother who was forbidding, to say the least, the only way I could safely connect with her was by watching her feet/shoes. So, from time to time, I will put on shoes like the styles she wore to nuture myself.
2) I have erotic feelings around wearing them myself, taking pictures of myself in them, and seeing men or women in such styles.
3) When I put on pumps, my feet are embraced, in a way, as if warm and gentle hands were holding them.
4) Allied to 3) is how I feel standing in heels, where my heels are supported high in the air: I feel as if strong hands are hold me up so that I can get closer to the sky.
Rainbow
:)

wheels · 21st February 2005, 19:13

Other answers:

High heels are fairly unique in that they look fanatastic from whichever angle you look at them. I can't think of anything else that this applies to.

Each pair of heels feels completely different from any other. Flats all feel the same.

rainbow6562004 · 21st February 2005, 19:56

Thanks for replying. I agree completely: there are no "bad" views of high-heeled shoes, with or without feet in them! :D

By the way, your signature line is clever and useful.
Rainbow

shrimper · 21st February 2005, 20:45

Quote:

Originally Posted by rainbow6562004

Some answers:
1) Having had a mother who was forbidding, to say the least, the only way I could safely connect with her was by watching her feet/shoes. So, from time to time, I will put on shoes like the styles she wore to nuture myself.
2) I have erotic feelings around wearing them myself, taking pictures of myself in them, and seeing men or women in such styles.
3) When I put on pumps, my feet are embraced, in a way, as if warm and gentle hands were holding them.
4) Allied to 3) is how I feel standing in heels, where my heels are supported high in the air: I feel as if strong hands are hold me up so that I can get closer to the sky.
Rainbow
:)

#3 sounds like how I feel when I'm wearing heels. I had never thought about it that way though. Let me think about that some more and get back to you.

Thanks.

rainbow6562004 · 21st February 2005, 21:01

Thanks for replying. I look forward to hearing what further you have to say.
Rainbow
:D

luxxyheels · 22nd February 2005, 03:20

I like how I walk in them and also how they feel. Sometimes I forget that I have them on.

rainbow6562004 · 22nd February 2005, 03:57

Sounds wonderful.
:D
Rainbow

genebujold · 22nd February 2005, 05:19

It just kind of grew on me. Oh, like most boys I tried on a few pairs of mom's heels - even a couple pairs of a few of our neighbors, and once did the CD Halloween thing in college, and in heels (three inchers, belonging to my girlfriend's roomate).

But I got into it when I had to, with a pair of clunky Payless shoe-boots with a 3" heel as an alternative to wearing several hundred dollar orthopedic elevator shoes when my progressively bad ankle got to the point where walking flat was the pits.

At first, I was supremely embarrassed, but my wife understood. After a while, though, it grew on me and instead of relegating myself to cheap ugly house shoes, I began to be a little more bold and bought some heels that would pass on the outside.

Then, I found this site, and a few others on fashion revolution, and the rest is history!

raccoon · 22nd February 2005, 10:22

All styles I like to see on a woman work for me. That is slick, pointy but not shiny boots. Until a few months ago I'd been an admirer of women in heels only. Now my own boots help me fantasize about them.
Women in classic pumps are equally attractive, but pumps are not for me to wear. My masculine legs would spoil the effect.

luxxyheels · 22nd February 2005, 12:48

Quote:

Originally Posted by raccoon

All styles I like to see on a woman work for me. That is slick, pointy but not shiny boots. Until a few months ago I'd been an admirer of women in heels only. Now my own boots help me fantasize about them.
Women in classic pumps are equally attractive, but pumps are not for me to wear. My masculine legs would spoil the effect.

Once you shave your legs and put on stocking or pantyhose (I prefer stockings with a garter belt), the effect is there. You see why women look so good in them :).

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rainbow6562004 I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: New York City Posts: 234 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Rep Power: 8	Why do I enjoy some high-heel styles? Some answers: 1) Having had a mother who was forbidding, to say the least, the only way I could safely connect with her was by watching her feet/shoes. So, from time to time, I will put on shoes like the styles she wore to nuture myself. 2) I have erotic feelings around wearing them myself, taking pictures of myself in them, and seeing men or women in such styles. 3) When I put on pumps, my feet are embraced, in a way, as if warm and gentle hands were holding them. 4) Allied to 3) is how I feel standing in heels, where my heels are supported high in the air: I feel as if strong hands are hold me up so that I can get closer to the sky. Rainbow :) __________________ In 100 years no one will care that you wore high heels today.

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wheels I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: England Posts: 146 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts I am Male Rep Power: 8	Other answers: High heels are fairly unique in that they look fanatastic from whichever angle you look at them. I can't think of anything else that this applies to. Each pair of heels feels completely different from any other. Flats all feel the same. __________________ Heel thyself Over 50 pairs of heels now on my website at www.geocities.com/wayneheels/

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rainbow6562004 I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: New York City Posts: 234 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Rep Power: 8	For Wheels Thanks for replying. I agree completely: there are no "bad" views of high-heeled shoes, with or without feet in them! :D By the way, your signature line is clever and useful. Rainbow __________________ In 100 years no one will care that you wore high heels today.

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rainbow6562004 I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: New York City Posts: 234 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Rep Power: 8	For Shrimper Thanks for replying. I look forward to hearing what further you have to say. Rainbow :D __________________ In 100 years no one will care that you wore high heels today.

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rainbow6562004 I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: New York City Posts: 234 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Rep Power: 8	For Luxxyheels Sounds wonderful. :D Rainbow __________________ In 100 years no one will care that you wore high heels today.

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luxxyheels I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: USA, California Posts: 376 Thanks: 12 Thanked 12 Times in 10 Posts I am Male Rep Power: 10	I like how I walk in them and also how they feel. Sometimes I forget that I have them on.

22nd February 2005, 05:19	#8 (permalink)
genebujold Banned Users Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 1,349 Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts I am Male Rep Power: 0	It just kind of grew on me. Oh, like most boys I tried on a few pairs of mom's heels - even a couple pairs of a few of our neighbors, and once did the CD Halloween thing in college, and in heels (three inchers, belonging to my girlfriend's roomate). But I got into it when I had to, with a pair of clunky Payless shoe-boots with a 3" heel as an alternative to wearing several hundred dollar orthopedic elevator shoes when my progressively bad ankle got to the point where walking flat was the pits. At first, I was supremely embarrassed, but my wife understood. After a while, though, it grew on me and instead of relegating myself to cheap ugly house shoes, I began to be a little more bold and bought some heels that would pass on the outside. Then, I found this site, and a few others on fashion revolution, and the rest is history!

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raccoon I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: the Netherlands Posts: 178 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts I am Male Rep Power: 9	All styles I like to see on a woman work for me. That is slick, pointy but not shiny boots. Until a few months ago I'd been an admirer of women in heels only. Now my own boots help me fantasize about them. Women in classic pumps are equally attractive, but pumps are not for me to wear. My masculine legs would spoil the effect.