hhfan

hey now i kno i dont post very often but i do lerk around and read every one elses storys. and they have given me the insperation to buy my heels then wear them in public (well the quiet areas out side :P )

anyways i finally told a friend of mine about my platform boots :P i wasnt game to jus come out and tell her that i had a thing for heels and had already baught a couple pairs. so i was bored one night and she came on msn and asked me wat i was doing (she used to live near me but has since moved away but she comes back every now and then for a visit)
anyways i replyed to her shoe shopping, and she laughed and took it as a joke so i thought awsome ill play on this.
so she goes wat sort of shoes are you looking at. so i told her i was looking at hooker boots and i sent her a picture of my pleaser 2023 boots, http://www.urbantrendzshoes.com/delight-2023-big.htm
she thought it was all a big joke, then she said "you should buy them for me but i cant wear them because of my knee" so i said "how bout i wear them for you"
and she went on to say "i dare you to"

anyways i waited a few days cleaned my boots and told her i got a package in the mail. anyways since she had forgotten bout it she was all curious wat it was, so i reminded her wat she had dared me to buy. anyways after reminding her of the dare, there was the bit of shock and then laughs of disbeleif and the "you didnt really did you", so i sent her a pic of me wearing them. the whole time me thinking why am i telling her and wat the hell am i doing, and she was suprisingly cool about it, she did have a bit of a joke about it and she called me a clown lol. so i told her ill have to show her them next time she comes to visit :P

anyways to me i think that turned out pretty well :P i did feel like i had to tell some one tho coz ive had the urge to show my heels to some one and for some reason i feel the idea of being around a girl in heels would be easier. either way im pretty exited now i want her to come back soon so i can show her my boots :P

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Steve63130

G'day, mate! Awesome story. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes when you tell the truth people don't believe it. You told her and she thought you were kidding. Now she knows, so you've broken the ice, and you can wear them around her when she visits. You can tell her more as you get to know her better. If she's ok with the boots, she's a keeper!

Steve

new_look

trouble is, she might still think youve done it for a laugh.. not becase you really want to wear them.

Now is the good time probably (as i did with my ex on a similar dare style approach with my ex) to say oo actually i like wearing these they feel great with the heel. You girls are lucky you know etc and take it from there and hopefully she will be cool enough to say u can wear what u like :)

loswabs

This is such a good tip, I agree 100%. The door is open to heeling hhfan, now totter through it

dblair

Way to go, hhfan. I wouldn't be too worried about her thinking it was all a joke. I mean, even if she hasn't quite caught on to the full idea that it wasn't all a joke to you, she's got to be at least considering that possibility...and when she next sees you in them or talks to you next about them, it will surely be confirmed. Also, I like the idea that you presented it to her in a way that she could get a laugh about...laughter a big stress reliever. When I told my girlfriend, I actually told her that I was OK with it if she laughed when she first say me in heels. And sure enough, she did laugh, and I was glad she did. She did not laugh about it again after that first time, but she still knows that I wouldn't be upset or offended if she did. I figure that if I'm having fun with it, it's OK if she does too.

hhfan

thanks for the response guys :D she thinks its a good laugh :P

oh and this one is jus a friend she has a boyfriend. but ive been friends with her for a long time. so i thought id set her up so she'd dare me to buy them, that way i could test the water later on and if i thought her reaction would be bad i could pass it off as a joke.

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new_look

Most of the closed minded people who Wouldnt approve of a bloke wearing heels would almost certainly all be at least be prepared to laugh with any bloke that had done it for a joke, but when your real desires are revealed they run for miles.

Which is exactly what i was saying. As you said she thinks its a laugh and is funny BUT that might be all. You dont know if she would be cool with you wearing them normally or a normal style pair of heels out for example. I then refer you back to my first post :)

Dawn HH

What New_Look says could be true but only time will really tell just exactly how she feels with it all.
Cheers---

Dawn HH

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kneehighs

Honestly, if you really want her approval you will likely get it faster by sticking to your guns, by staying sure of yourself regardless of how she may react, by showing you will not back down from wearing heels regardless of what she or others may think.

It's a social risk to wear heels as a man, but it's a calculated risk which makes it all worthwhile. You back down if she laughs and you lose her respect. You stick your ground regardless of what she thinks or feels, and you win her respect. I can virtually guarantee it. She may be confused at first, but you'll come out on top a confident man, a successful risk taker, the kind of guy women are compelled to be attracted to.

Go in with the frame that you are successful social risk taker, a self-reliant man who makes his own decisions regardless of what other people think. Stick to that frame, to those feeling of confidence and her responses won't matter since your frame will be stronger.

Remember, it's almost always the dominant frame that wins.

NH Heels

I think what Kneehighs said is solid advice for anyone and can be applied to many other aspects of life as well.

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