How many other ladies would enjoy this?

BabeinHeels · 28th April 2003, 13:02

Hi all,
I have a husband who considers himself to be a rather "rugged" individual. He is completely happy with me wearing the heels for the evening. I, however, would enjoy having a man around who is willing to try heels on for me. Even go so far as putting on stockings, etc....
He isn't interested, so I've asked if another male could join us for this. We have lived in the lifestyle of sharing our erotic fun for 4 years. He says no problem with another guy, he just isnt' interested in someone that he would consider bisexual. I've told him a million times that just because a man enjoys heels does not mean he is Bisexual.
Is my fantasy way out there? Do other women enjoy "dressing up" a playmate?
XO
Babe in Heels

texasbumpkin · 22nd May 2003, 23:45

I admit that my bf has a great pair of 7 inch heels, no plat, that I just wish he would wear more often. :D

High Surprise · 16th June 2003, 15:44

All I have to say here is some g.friends would understand. Others wouldn't. It can be a sensitive subject. Good for you!

Anita C. · 17th November 2003, 06:32

After one extremely long & hard week I came home to a CLEAN house (vacuumed, dishes, dusting, laundry all DONE!), a wonderful candle;light dinner AND a full body massage . .

Top THAT!

JinxieKat · 20th June 2004, 12:30

I want to get my husband into a pair of thigh high leather block heels. I've mentioned it and gotten a strange look, but I think if I can find a 'masculine' enough looking pair I can manage it. No pointed toes or stilettos for him ;) That's ok with me, just means I can have them all instead *lol*

JinxieKat

Laurieheels · 3rd December 2004, 04:27

Can't say I would enjoy it. I'm all about the shoes for me, no one else.

I like a man who can appreciate the fact that I wear heels, isn't going to want to wear them himself, and will not care if there are days I don't wear them at all for whatever reason.

Ellen-Jay · 3rd December 2004, 09:36

I'm in total agreement with Laurie.

(A gals thread, a question asked to the ladies - swamped by male members)

Ellen-Jay :D

Laurieheels · 5th December 2004, 04:51

It's one of the main reasons why we don't have a regular cast of female members here, and why this is one of the most quiet forums here.

The problem is, women like to talk in groups of women. And the idea here was to let women discuss, but anyone could read.

Yes, the boys are excited to discuss heels and give their opinions and hopefully influence all of us girls.

But if we've all gone for coffee to discuss things from a female view point, and guys are all there at the table, we're not going to talk much.

And then someone named Gina posts some tarty picture without ever smiling or seeming like anything more than a persona, and everyone goes nuts.

Yes, I am in a mood.

pussyinboots · 3rd November 2006, 14:56

Quote:

Originally Posted by BabeinHeels

Hi all,
I have a husband who considers himself to be a rather "rugged" individual. He is completely happy with me wearing the heels for the evening. I, however, would enjoy having a man around who is willing to try heels on for me. Even go so far as putting on stockings, etc....
He isn't interested, so I've asked if another male could join us for this. We have lived in the lifestyle of sharing our erotic fun for 4 years. He says no problem with another guy, he just isnt' interested in someone that he would consider bisexual. I've told him a million times that just because a man enjoys heels does not mean he is Bisexual.
Is my fantasy way out there? Do other women enjoy "dressing up" a playmate?
XO
Babe in Heels

No - your fantasy ISN'T "way out there".

YES - LOTS of perfectly normal women like "dressing up" a play-mate or partner - me included. And my guy looks FAB in stockings and heels - and I respect him all the more for having no hang-ups about cross dressing.

And you can tell your husband - it is a statistical fact - that 95% of crossdressers in the UK - are fully heterosexual males in stable long-term relationships or marraige.

If he really digs you - and is serious about SHARING (give and take) erotic adventures with you - then he should have no problems doing it in the privacy of your own home.

I suspect he's scared of what other people would think.

Well - whose gonna find out???

MrsHeels · 12th November 2006, 23:47

Hello All -

My husband wears stockings and heels for me, and for him as well. Just last night we went out to a movie and dinner and he wore a body stocking and cuffs under his clothes! What a surprise when in the dark movie theater he placed my hand on his wrist to feel the cuffs he was wearing...I could hardly keep my mind on the movie! Thought I would fall out of my seat, when he placed my hand under his shirt to feel the stocking he was wearing!!! When we got home, things continued to heat up, and I both dressed and undressed him......

My husband has a strong personality, a John Wayne type, while we are very familiar with Dominance and submission, this is not what was going on, nor do I in any way feel last night made him a sissy. I feel it takes much more strength for a guy to realise he has a soft side, and do appreciate it, then to hide behind macho BS..

When a man or women is strong enough to show what they trully feel, that is when you will see strength....

Katherine

28th April 2003, 13:02	#1 (permalink)
BabeinHeels I'm a Bronze Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Southeastern US Posts: 40 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts I am Female Rep Power: 8	How many other ladies would enjoy this? Hi all, I have a husband who considers himself to be a rather "rugged" individual. He is completely happy with me wearing the heels for the evening. I, however, would enjoy having a man around who is willing to try heels on for me. Even go so far as putting on stockings, etc.... He isn't interested, so I've asked if another male could join us for this. We have lived in the lifestyle of sharing our erotic fun for 4 years. He says no problem with another guy, he just isnt' interested in someone that he would consider bisexual. I've told him a million times that just because a man enjoys heels does not mean he is Bisexual. Is my fantasy way out there? Do other women enjoy "dressing up" a playmate? XO Babe in Heels

3rd December 2004, 09:36	#7 (permalink)
Ellen-Jay I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 470 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts I am Male Rep Power: 10	I'm in total agreement with Laurie. (A gals thread, a question asked to the ladies - swamped by male members) Ellen-Jay :D __________________ --------------------------------------------------- The shoes aren't sensible, so why is the talk?

12th November 2006, 23:47	#10 (permalink)
MrsHeels I'm a Bronze Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Southern New Jersey, USA Posts: 43 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Rep Power: 4	Re: How many other ladies would enjoy this? Hello All - My husband wears stockings and heels for me, and for him as well. Just last night we went out to a movie and dinner and he wore a body stocking and cuffs under his clothes! What a surprise when in the dark movie theater he placed my hand on his wrist to feel the cuffs he was wearing...I could hardly keep my mind on the movie! Thought I would fall out of my seat, when he placed my hand under his shirt to feel the stocking he was wearing!!! When we got home, things continued to heat up, and I both dressed and undressed him...... My husband has a strong personality, a John Wayne type, while we are very familiar with Dominance and submission, this is not what was going on, nor do I in any way feel last night made him a sissy. I feel it takes much more strength for a guy to realise he has a soft side, and do appreciate it, then to hide behind macho BS.. When a man or women is strong enough to show what they trully feel, that is when you will see strength.... Katherine

22nd May 2003, 23:45	#2 (permalink)
texasbumpkin I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: USA Age: 35 Posts: 257 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post I am Female Rep Power: 10	I admit that my bf has a great pair of 7 inch heels, no plat, that I just wish he would wear more often. :D

16th June 2003, 15:44	#3 (permalink)
High Surprise I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: constantly between UK & Sweden Age: 31 Posts: 687 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts I'm a Girl Rep Power: 14	All I have to say here is some g.friends would understand. Others wouldn't. It can be a sensitive subject. Good for you!

17th November 2003, 06:32	#4 (permalink)
Anita C. I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: USA Posts: 577 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post I am Female Rep Power: 12	After one extremely long & hard week I came home to a CLEAN house (vacuumed, dishes, dusting, laundry all DONE!), a wonderful candle;light dinner AND a full body massage . . Top THAT!

20th June 2004, 12:30	#5 (permalink)
JinxieKat I'm a Silver Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Kentucky, USA Posts: 150 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Rep Power: 8	I want to get my husband into a pair of thigh high leather block heels. I've mentioned it and gotten a strange look, but I think if I can find a 'masculine' enough looking pair I can manage it. No pointed toes or stilettos for him ;) That's ok with me, just means I can have them all instead lol JinxieKat

3rd December 2004, 04:27	#6 (permalink)
Laurieheels I'm a Gold Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Canadian city near big mountains Posts: 2,716 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post I am Female Rep Power: 36	Can't say I would enjoy it. I'm all about the shoes for me, no one else. I like a man who can appreciate the fact that I wear heels, isn't going to want to wear them himself, and will not care if there are days I don't wear them at all for whatever reason.

5th December 2004, 04:51	#8 (permalink)
Laurieheels I'm a Gold Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Canadian city near big mountains Posts: 2,716 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post I am Female Rep Power: 36	It's one of the main reasons why we don't have a regular cast of female members here, and why this is one of the most quiet forums here. The problem is, women like to talk in groups of women. And the idea here was to let women discuss, but anyone could read. Yes, the boys are excited to discuss heels and give their opinions and hopefully influence all of us girls. But if we've all gone for coffee to discuss things from a female view point, and guys are all there at the table, we're not going to talk much. And then someone named Gina posts some tarty picture without ever smiling or seeming like anything more than a persona, and everyone goes nuts. Yes, I am in a mood.