Do we boys enjoy it when gals feet hurt from wearing heels?

Fiattro · 30th September 2006, 11:19

This question is also in the gals section but it refers to the gals...
So how do we think about women having painfull feet. Does it turn you on or do you feel bad for the woman. I personally love it to see a woman struggle on hh but I must say that I also like giving foot massages so I'm not that bad after all :)

It's more like a BDSM style of fetish I think. Having someone trapped in hh is the ultimate fantasy. I don't know if there's anyone else with this specific fetish. I really like to know :)

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hoverfly · 30th September 2006, 17:16

Actually no, It's more pain full for me to hear my GF complain constantly about her feet hurting, nag, nag, nag, nag, nag...... :lol:

shaq91 · 30th September 2006, 20:51

Yea. women in heels is great. I love it when there feet hurt, and they struggle from the pain, but it makes them look mad good, and its really worth it, but of course inside i feel bad for them.

chris100575 · 1st October 2006, 13:58

Seeing anyone in pain doesn't do it for me. The only way I'd enjoy it if a girl's feet hurt from wearing heels is if she wanted to swap shoes with me!

Chris

dr1819 · 1st October 2006, 14:45

I'm neither sadistic nor masochistic. If pain is a part of it, I'm not for it.

High heels can, and should be ergonomically constructed, and can be done so without detracting from almost any of the current styles. For most styles, a quarter to an eighth of an inch in the right directions, plus an appropriate amount of padding or functional support, is all anyone needs to turn a painful heel into a delight.

It's a shame that some manufacturers just don't have the slightest clue.

I'm thankful for feedback forums like Zappos - it's really taken manufacturers to task.

On styles I like, but weren't in my size, I've posted numerous feedback over the last couple of years, and today, three times as many styles on Zappos come in my size. I've similarly taken them to task on cost. If I believe a shoe is one that I would like, but it's grossly overpriced, I let them know, too. One of my favorite styles for lower-heeled sandals are the Think! brand. The problem is that all are about twice as expensive as they should be, so my response was, "Think! If only I had a million dollars, or if the makers of the Think! line of shoes had Thunk!, they'd be offering these in prices (half) and sizes (13) that I could Afford! and Wear!. Since they apparently did Neither!, I have no choice but to shope Elsewhere! Fortunately, a Lot! of their competitors Do! offer their Excllent! shoes in both Sizes! and Styles! I can Wear!"

If I buy a shoe that's a delight to wear, I make sure I let the manufacturer (and their competitors) know why, in detail. Similarly, if a heel really stinks, I make I let them know why, in detail, as well.

Both the manufacturers and their competitors are paying close attention to Zappos feedbacks, so if you're buying from Zappos, make sure you throw in your two cents.

sscotty727 · 1st October 2006, 15:05

I am going to have to agree with DR and Chris on this one. I don't want to see anyone in pain. There may be times I might be in a little pain and overlook it for the enjoyment of wearing heels...but I don't wish it on anyone else. Yes I want my wife to wear heels more, but not ones that hurt her. And we have been out with her in heels (that I begged her to wear) and her feet started hurting and I felt horrible about it. I even suggested she bring a pair of comfy shoes with her incase that does happen.

So to answer your question, NO, I do not want my wife (or anyone) to experience pain in heels.

Scotty

dr1819 · 1st October 2006, 17:21

Excellent sentiments, Scotty - right on the money.

I'm sure your wife is very appreciative of your decisions.

Shoeiee · 7th October 2006, 04:59

I agree partly with Dr and Scotty on this one...

My point of pleasureable pain is NOT the feet hurting from the shoes, but the ankles hurting from being worked out.

It's a different pain and one that I feel is more pleasurable as it's not a 'pointed' pain. It's like when you work out at the gym and 'feel the burn' that I enjoy both for myself and women. When the shoes are causing the pain in the balls of feet or toes, that's a whole other ball of wax, one of which I can NOT appreciate!!

The second type of pain is a direct result of manufacturers being cheap and unthoughtful of the wearers.

Something I have never understood...Why on EARTH do they make high heels with SO LITTLE PADDING in the toebox!! Due to the design of the shoe it forces the wearer to place more weight in that location yet they put nothing substantial there to provide comfort!! And then they expect people to wear their shoes! YEAH!!! RIGHT!!!

Oh well...Enought ranting!
Happy Heeling!
Shoeiee

Secreto · 7th October 2006, 18:30

I prefer the confident stride of a woman in heels opposed to the ouch hobbling, makes me want to buy them gel inserts!

Mikey63 · 7th October 2006, 22:48

For some I think it's just something else to moan about.