jagman

Do I enjoy when a womam feels pain from wearing heels? No I don't think so. Do I respect someone who feels pain from wearing heels? Yes as long as she/he does it at a life choice and doesn't do permanent damage.
Pata, surely to achieve what you have done it must have incurred some pain or discomfort? As anyone striving to achieve a physical pinnical it involves pain, dedication and motivation. What was your motivation?

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JNR

Why would anyone want to wear shoes that hurt their feet?

pata

As already said, I think it´s primary not pain itself but it is the idea of a girl wearing heels for so long or inspite of everything. I think it´s ok to have this fetish (as well as other fetishes) - untill one can differenciate between fantasy and reality.


@ jagman:
first of all- getting blisters can happen with every type of shoe, and there also are times when my feet hurt because I was walking barefeet;).

My motivation is quite simple: I absolutely like high heels. That I like the higher heels is quite unusual for a woman, but still my experience says me that the most women DO like heels. But of course it is an unpractical shoewear. Also it is a financial question (we need walkable shoes, but high heels are luxury in a certain way). so very often the first heels of a woman do not fit well or are not of good quality and they hurt, and the consequence would be, a woman would avoid buying and wearing heels furthermore. Also, if facing inappropriate attitude from people around in case of less selfconfident persons. then a stupid sentence from a wanna-be-cool adolescent can spoil her wish to wear high heels forever. And of course, if a women feels pressure to wear high heels when these are *sexual* for her husband/bf- (I must admit, women might be a little bit complicated LOL) - cuz of course this happens exactly where the husband or bf likes high heels.

As to me wearing heels- I guess I simply had more luck about details or was *free* to make and live it my own way without beeing influenced by anybody. So e. g. starting to wear them quite lately as I had my own money and could afford more heels for testing etc. For everyday I´d wear lower heels but well fitting and of really good quality. As to wearing ultra high heels- of course its a visual enjoyment for me myself, but somehow it´s also a sportive attitude. and I am pretty sure, that´s the point. for sports you know you have to stop when you feel pain. So I would take heels off as soon as they start hurting. As already written somewhere, I am pretty sure this one of the reasons I can walk those ultra high heels - I would never let them hurt me!
So I will get off all of my heels of pleaser seduce/domina line, although I thought them SO beautiful and bought nearly every model. But I cannot wear them, they start hurting me after a while of wearing. So as already said, hurting = no heels; women are no masochists.

Wearing high heels mean coping with them- but it´s not about standing out pain. It means, before choosing heels, reflecting about the situation. when it´s really hot, I won´t wear very high heels with very thin straps. There are heels I cannot wear with stockings- but they are great for barefeet walk. I would always test new heels first wearing them for a short walk to a local shop or so to see what happens. Cuz some shoes fit first well but after you have walked 10 minutes they might start hurting.
So it´s about life style and attitude but it affords lots of selfconfidence and power cuz in a certain way of course heels influence ones life.

Fiattro

Well said Pata!
But for me it's still exciting to see a girl struggling and also having fun in high heels. If the pain is under control, why not? Foot massages are still for free in my private life, especially when my GF wears here 4 inch heels for a while in the house or on a vacation. The only pain she feels is under the ball of the feet. I must say, there are days that she's doing the dishes while standing straight on her heels and she suddenly wants the shoes off, too much pain under the ball of the feet. I respect that, if the pain is too much then no heels, no problem with that!

pata

the one excludes the other. but as already said, thoughts and phantasies are legitime.

Skirted-UK

No, women who's feet hurt when wearing heels does nothing for me, quiet the opposite in fact. When I was in my teens I chose my girlfriends for their preference for high heels and straight skirts. Unfortunately I usually found that these girls did not like wearing heels or tight skirts for very long and usually could not wait to get out of them when they got home.
I remember going to a dance with a girl once and we missed the last bus home. As we walked home, she was walking bare feet, carrying her sling-backs with her skirt hitched up above her knees. It was so embarrassing.
No, I like to see women wearing heels, its a definite turn off when you find that they can't wear them because their feet hurt and they have to keep taken them off.

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john741

I like it when a girls heels hurt her feet. I'm the guy that offers "do you want to wear my shoes for a bit" and then get to wear hers.

fiddler1307

I can't say that I would be a fan of seeing a woman in pain from wearing high heels, even though I would be among the first to admit to being a huge fan of any woman who, like pata, and Gina, seem to find really high heels easy to wear.
I hope you will be able to continue as you do now, wearing extreme heels for our pleasure as well as your own.

RPMindy

i do not get any thrills from a woman being in pain (heels or not). i do go out of my way to make sure when out and about with a heeled gal.. i take it easy so not to push her skills too far. ex.. no excess walking.

depending on a few factors.. i may offer a massage if i've made her stand too much or notice she's not comfy.

i like the confident look in heels.. and pain takes away from that. plus.. a woman won't wear taller heels if they hurt her... and i like seeing a woman in very very high heels. so.. they shouldn't hurt if she's to do it more than once

RPM

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