Why permanent high heeled feet?

chris100575 · 12th June 2006, 14:17

I was just wondering why anyone would want to *have* to wear high heels all the time? I can see the appeal in wearing them, but I don't understand why you'd want to not be able to wear flat shoes. Surely not being able to do things like sports / gardening whatever would be a problem after a while.

Is this just a fantasy, or are people trying to do this for real? Isn't it damaging?

Don't get me wrong, if it's your thing I'm not criticising, I'm just trying to understand it.

Chris

Dr. Shoe · 12th June 2006, 16:15

The whole point is in the fact that it restricts what you can do.

If you have permanently high heel feet then you aren't the athletic type and you have servants to do the gardening!

Having said that the young lady I used to know used to do sports in trainers but always walked on the balls of her feet as if in heels. She was quite a devastating tennis player actually and was quite good at badminton and squash too. She was crap at sports that involved lots of running or kicking things though!

Andrea and Marc · 13th June 2006, 08:35

We can only speak for us:
Having permanent high heeled feet is for us a body modification as other people have piercing, brandings or tattoos.
For Andrea it is something of our partnership she has always with her, as other people wear a ring or have a picture of the partner with each other. Of course it is a restriction. But a restriction of one partner is also a restriction of the other partner. He must compensate it. So Marc is as well restricted and so we think it is a fair deal.

pata · 13th June 2006, 18:31

I guess you mixing something up @andrea and marc.
somehow it is typically, as males tend to be competative and to exaggerate and theoretically would not get *enough*. so lots of highheels-addicted men think a perm. highheeled feet attractive... usually as long as they really get a girlfriend/wife with those.

surely there are lots of women who like that too but usually only as far as they are impressed as the dev. part in their relationship. if you think that necessary to prove your love or your *restriction* (!?!?)- do it, it is your feet and will be your problem.

It is not a body modification like a tatoo. it is deformation of your feet, so you cannot avoid at the latest in 15 years you will have deformed feet, maybe even deformed body, permament feet- and backaches and ugly feet and toes- just a *normal* development (like for all one-sided long-term exercises) without giving the foot the possibility of normal movement.

There are also lots of people who think the tied feet of chinese women to be beautiful... so it is your decision.

Andrea and Marc · 14th June 2006, 15:21

Dear pata,
thank you for your answer. You write "usually as long as they really get a girlfriend/wife with those". It is very good, that we have an expert of this topic in the forum, who knows a lot of couples were she has permanent high heeled feet. As we wrote in a separate thread we search contact to other couples with the same interest. Since you are in Germany located as we do, it must be very easy for you to arrange such a contact. It would be very kind of you if you could help us.
To your point:
Andrea is of course a little devote, but there is no need to prove our love. It is just something she has every time with here. It may be, that the day will come were she does not like to have permanent high heeled feet. But almost every decision is a sort of final decision which can be the wrong one day. But not making decisions is not the solution.
We both think that it is the correct decision; even that it is more dangerous than other decisions. But we get a lot out of it.

thehighheelsgirl · 14th June 2006, 15:52

My boyfriend and I both love my permanent high heel feet. I agree...its like tatooing or whatever its body modification. Is it a compromise? Very much so. I cant play tennis, go running, or whatever but I LOVE just knowing that my heels will never touch the ground again.

Jen

pata · 14th June 2006, 21:43

@andrea and marc:
as to long-term physical consequences for andrea- just ask your doc:)

as to your aimed contact profile: I confess I would not know any couple in germany searching in explicit for such contacts. different priorities, I guess. Also, some of them were not as lucky to maintain the relationship untill today (but I am pretty sure the reason for parting were neither highheels nor feet *LOL).

I would recomend you to announce in different german high-heel-boards, as well as in erotic, fetish or sm boards. there are lots of them and the most have a kind of contacting- or search-and-find areas. Just check the amount of active members and readers to make your search more effective. and be aware of getting the most posts from males ;).

@jen: I would never deny there is a certain attraction to get a permanent highheel feet for a woman too if she is really high-heel addicted. Also it is not up to me to judge about this. nevertheless it is seldom that a woman would decide all for her alone and for herself to get it.

Beginning from the 50ties (no idea if earlier as well) lots of ladies who had to wear highheels all the time because of the job or the social status got this kind of *body modification* but it was not a self-aim as here descripted. Anyway I guess it was the origin of this kind of fetish.

Adeana · 15th June 2006, 06:41

Ok...how about a single female, with a few guy close friends, opinion.?

I have always had a thing for wearing heels. Maybe it came from my mom's 'No way' or my friend's 'those are hooker heels!' but I guess maybe there was at first a sense of defiance, and then a fun and free outlook.....hard to tell or describe....

I will admit that I have worn high heels more since I am not dating anyone regularly than previously when I had a boyfriend for almost 2 years and he had a 'high heel thing'. The difference is that he loved me wearing the extreme high heels occasionally, and now I wear more acceptable high heels regularly. maybe the heel height is about the same but the style is a big difference!

Working in a professional office type environment, and hanging out in the single-yuppie-type after work lifestyle it is very easy to incorporate 4"+ or so heels into it and be considered 'fashionably acceptable' and in style. With the work day taking up 9+ hours and the off-work taking up 5+ hours, it's easy to wear high heels (4"+) for maybe 2/3of the day!...get it?

I guess I personally understand the situation, and risks, and if you chatted with enough nice people on here like RPMindy, Higheeluv, and Fred you kind of have got the warning....

But I guess it is 'choice' and 'lifestyle' and after many years now of wearing high heels, like I described.... to a 50 hour work week, after work, and ADDING a X-boyfriend who had thing for heels..... I am OK with the fact that I never heard the phrase 'perm high heeled' til I got on here, but know that I am actually more comfortable and in a situation where wearing high heels is better for me....

Not to say that I can't put on a pair of flip-flops and go down to Starbucks!....but it feels better on my feet, ankles, and calves wearing a pair of mild heeled mules than them....

Like I said...it's a choice...and a lifestyle...hehehe

Loves!,

Adeana

Andrea and Marc · 15th June 2006, 07:03

@pata: We are not surprised by your answer. In forums there are a lot of people claiming a lot. But getting into contact to people who take high heel training really serious is difficult. So you are one more experience of that kind: There are hundreds around but it is not possible to meet them. But it is very easy to get to know ...

higheeluv · 15th June 2006, 13:01

Adeana,

I am so lucky to have made it into your post.... You and I have had ALOT of discussions on this topic and I agree 100% with what you said.... It's definately a lifestyle and you have to want to wear them more for yourself than anyone else..... but of course it's great when a SO wears them for her man......

I for one would love to see you in your sexy heels?? Any pictures in the future of you in them

Higheeluv

P.S. I sent you a message :) I know you love to read them