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@adeana: thank you for making your post! Still again the same question to specify- did you ever targeted getting a permanent highheeled feet? As a kind of self-aim? I think, thats THE difference concerning this topic.

I am glad to hear your opinion about how high the heels should be- cause thats similary I would see it. I really like extreme high heels but it is a question of style and I would think them absolutely inanpropriate (or even ridiculous) to wear them in office or like that.

@andrea and marc: maybe you are over-eager to find such special contacts? So you would reduce a person only to this topic. take it easy. and as I said, it is a topic more about sm than highheels.
anyway it is not difficult to make real life contacts, it is just up to you. since those 4 years I am more active in net we got also lots of *real-life* friends, (singles and couples), and thus inspite my husband actually not interested in heels at all. but even if it is about highheels, the person behind should be more important so that he enjoys our acqaintances too.

RPMindy

Adeana,

It feels good to be mentioned in your post. you're a great person to chat with here!

I totally agree with you. most of my high heeled friends do it more out of a lifestyle choice than the sole aim of being permanently in high heels.

some of them do it like the ladies of the 50's. others do it less often, but tall enough and long enough to get a similar feeling.

half these gals can go from flats to 5+ inch without winking.. because they're always in either extremes.. either flats/boots with no heels/or flip-flops.. or in 5+inchers. (the group in between does the 4+ inch)

the other half may not be as extreme in their heeling, but wear around 4 inch almost all the time with flats being the rarety. but they can do it if need be. all about their lifestyle choices.

all of them have told me that after many consecutive days of heeling.. they notice the 'tension' of being in flats... but it's only a passing thing. for those who have been heeling 15+ years.. they say it's the same thing all the time.. a little 'tension' if you've not been in flats a long time. but it's truely a lifestyle thing and the focus is not on the heeling, but looking cute.

one gal i can think of in particular had a lifestyle change that has moved her to flats more than anything else. her job requires flats and she's there more than 50 hours a week. she says she really misses her extreme heeling because of the life she then had. but she heard of the permanent condition and would do anything to avoid it. however, she does want to go back to a lifestyle that includes her heels (and an extensive collection she has).

i'm starting to think that only a very very small handful of women want to be permanently heeled... it's more a minority of guys who want their woman in such a condition.. and it's one that takes a lot of training and a lot of sacrifice to get to. so, people who do it as alifestyle have little to worry about as far as 'accidentally' being permanently in high heels.. but have to be sure to keep up on their health (excersize and stretching.. etc) to keep the body in optimal condition to minize some of the risk associated with heeling.

RPM

gosh that was a long post :lol:

chris100575

If being unable to wear flat shoes or go barefoot is your thing fair enough, but to me it's too close to Chinese foot binding. Admittedly as a guy I'm unlikely to ever be able to wear heels all day every day, unless I'm able to give up work one day, but even then I'd hate the thought of not being able to go without them sometimes.

This is just my opinion of course, if you enjoy it more power to you. I have tattoos and not everyone likes them.

Chris

thehighheelsgirl

I totally love not being able to put my heels on the ground. Its a huge compromise, but I love it. Whenever I look at my feet barefoot while changing heels or whatever it totally turns me on knowing they'll never go flat again.

jen

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ScottyD

It would be great to see some more pics; the previous ones you posted were amazing.

RPMindy

i think it's the 'amateurs' who get themselves in positions that they will regret. they loose the ability to be in flats (which takes a lot of training and dedication if you ask me) and then they regret it.

however, folks like Jen seem to be fully aware of the 'risks' and have accepted the ideal wholeheartedly. as few and rare as such people exist, we have one in our midst. I may not get it, but out of respect for her choice.. I say more power to you Jen!!!!

medically, to my knowledge, it is possible to reverse a permanently heeled condition if it's not been in place for many many years. just like you can teach a middle aged man to do a split (hard to do and not likely he's motivated to do it). so one can reverse the 'permanent' condition if they're willing to put just as much work to reverse it as they put to getting it. (assuming it's not too late.. ie.. too old).

so, Jen, enjoy your acheivements. Like one said.. those pics are hot and more would tickle my fancy.. but that is up to you.

RPM

Andrea and Marc

@RPMindy
We think you are totally right!

polkadot

What a b-o-o-o-o-o-ring perennial topic!

This is the favorite topic of high heel fetish people.

Achilles tendons are not made of steel. They are
pliable like all other tendons.

If adult wears very high heel shoes for more than a year,
her Achilles tendons will shorten, but this condition
is not permanent. If she later wears lower heel shoes
for a few months, she will be able to wear flat shoes
eventually.

A young teenager should not wear very high heel shoes
all the time because the shoes will deform her growing
bones. This kind of deformation looks ugly (sharp edges
of bones are visible under the skin) and is permanent
because the bones are rigid, and foot bone surgery is
very difficult.

The only permanent body modification associated with
adults wearing high heel shoes is injury caused by poor
quality of the shoes. If you want to wear very high heel
shoes, do not even think about buying ready-made shoes.
The shoes must be custom made so that they fit perfectly
and there is enough room in the toebox for a thick
insert under the ball of the foot. More info:
http://www.medianet.pl/~andrew/shoes/comfy_heels.htm

Adeana

I think polkadot and RMMindy may be both have a point. It's what you get used to but not permanent if you don't let it....???

I have found it very easy to wear heels to work every day, of some sort. Whatever kind of heels, it's easy to put them on and go to work very day. I work in a professional office type setting so it is kind of expected and everyone does. Going by my 8 hour shift, + 1 hour lunch break + 1/2 hour travel time both ways to work and back I am wearing my heels that I put on for the day at least 10 hours. That does not include anything after work like....hehe...happy hours, or places I might have to stop and get something, or meeting someone after work....you know?

Plus there is the heels on weekends on the off days. Meeting friends or a date to do something. It's real easy to wear a pair of fashionable and even more high heeled than work shoes out! I have a few pair of high heeled casual mules that KILLS my arch! But I wear them because they are a really awesome heel! and I like the way they look.

SO I have been plagued with the achillles or whatever muscle that is...and I can feel it and limiting me...but I also hope!...it's not anything permanent....but I can honestly say...that if it is...I deserved it...hehe...and I am OK with it.

loves,

Adeana

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crotchhiboots

I don't Know but I want to be in this catagory. Iknow that being a guy and having to wear high heels all of the time just to walk is very erotic to me. I have bought a pair of 3.5" wedges and when I don't wear them and go bearfoot my tendons feel streached . I guess that wearing heels makes me feel unique in my area(ie rural country).

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