First attempt

davefry · 20th November 2006, 20:03

Welcome to my first (photographed) attempt at crossdressing. I'd like to see what others think of the way I look, and what you could suggest to make me look more feminine. I know I could never pass, so I don't intend to go anywhere near the general public crossdressed (wife may have something to say about that, too). Whilst I am at home, I can, I want to, so I will. I just want to look more feminine, and less man-in-a-skirt.

You may have noticed there are no faces in the photos, that is because I've no clue about make-up other than eye-liner, and I don't have the time to play with it right now. For the future.

http://thumb0.webshots.net/t/20/21/6...0WdAlhe_th.jpg http://thumb0.webshots.net/t/53/753/...0vllWVB_th.jpg http://thumb0.webshots.net/t/14/14/5...0UwSopC_th.jpg

22nd November 2006, 00:15

Do you have any bigger pictures?

Shdwdrgn · 22nd November 2006, 08:53

Hips. You gotta have some hips, baby, or you ain't never gonna pass. :-)

I've also made a number of attempts over the years to get that 'look', and it never ceases to amaze me that padding the hips makes more of a difference than anything (including falsies).

davefry · 22nd November 2006, 13:13

Hips! Yes!

Actually, I've been thinking about getting some padding for my hips and tiny man-arse, but the best padded panty I've found is quite expensive. Still, it'll be worth it.

ILOVEPUMPS! : You can click the little pictures to make them bigger. If you want bigger than that, you should have your eyes tested.

stilettolover · 22nd November 2006, 18:53

davefry... Fredericks of hollywood has a 4 pad panty that will give you hips AND butt, for about $45. WWW.FREDERICKS.COM Have one myself and it does wonders for filling the shape void.

22nd November 2006, 19:10

Quote:

Originally Posted by davefry

ILOVEPUMPS! : You can click the little pictures to make them bigger. If you want bigger than that, you should have your eyes tested.

Nothing happens when I click them. But thanks for the suggestion anyway ;)

davefry · 23rd November 2006, 02:11

stilettolover : Cheers, that's excatly what I'm looking for, but I think postage to the UK would be rather expensive. That is, if they would even post it, but I ain't checked.

I found similar on eBay from the US, works out to $26 with postage, which is about £14.

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.d...3981&rd=1&rd=1

Am I likely to get better value/wear/quality from Frederick's?

Urgh. I know it's not a lot of money, but I don't want to feel I'm wasting money on something too expensive or too cheap for what I need.

ILOVEPUMPS! : Try clicking the link below. If you have a pop-up blocker (or IE7, Firefox, ect) that might stop the links from working.

http://good-times.webshots.com/photo...98700580WdAlhe

Danielinheels · 23rd November 2006, 05:04

The outfit doesn't lend itself to boots - it's really sporty-looking and most women would just wear trainers with it. jm2c

Wolfgang · 25th November 2006, 01:45

I suggest, if you want to wear a tight shirt, wear a skirt with some volume to imitate female hips. If you want to wear a tight skirt, wear a jacket or shawl to hide your shoulders.

This may just be me, the forum's fat fetishist, but you should gain just a little bit of weight to smooth your shape out. Not a lot, just maybe 10 lbs because too little weight shows how angular males are, but too much will make you grow a gut [unless your genetics allow you to be pear-shaped and squishy, like some men are]

davefry · 25th November 2006, 09:12

If only I could put weight on. I've been trying unsuccessfully for years. I'm 5' 10", and about 110lbs.