I think that first link should be
this instead of the one you posted.
Otherwise, it doesn't interest me whether or not this is about this forums member we know as "Anita C." Everybody has a right to choose the level of privacy they want, and it is not up to others here to change that.
BTW: why are you using a non-registered pseudonym here yourself, while posting information that you think is "revealing" something about another forum member??