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24th June 2008, 04:44
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Rep Power: 0  | Hello from Northern Colorado Hi, I'm Nick form the Ft. Collins/Loveland area of Northern Colorado. I've been lurking around without joining, but decided I was missing alot, so here I am!
I'm divorced...partially because my X couldn't deal with my love of all things feminine. I messed up & didn't tell her ALL about myself before we got married, so I guess I earned the divorce. I've loved high heels as long as I can remember. Watching, listening, & finally wearing. I can walk in 5" easily, 6" if I work into them & barely move in ballets. I keep trying, but my ankles can only take so much!
I have to say this is the first time I've ever talked about myself to anyone other than my X, so please be gentle. |
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24th June 2008, 16:04
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My Mood: Rep Power: 6  | Re: Hello from Northern Colorado Welcome! Sorry things did not work out in your marriage. I recently split too, but for different reasons. |
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24th June 2008, 18:38
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My Mood: Rep Power: 10  | Re: Hello from Northern Colorado You didn't "earn" your divorce, trust me. I went through the very same thing.
It's who you are, and if she couldn't accept it, then there's nothing YOU can/could do...
Your story is a lot like many here, especially mine. I know you will like it here, but please, share your stories and pics with us all!
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25th June 2008, 01:06
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Rep Power: 0  | Re: Hello from Northern Colorado Thank you for the kind comments. Me being me was only part of the problem...I'm probably not the easiest guy in the world to live with. Of course, neither was she!
I don't have any pictures, but hope to solve that soon. I have loved lurking around & picking up links, but last night I followed threads for a couple of hours. I love it! It's great to read threads from people who are so open.
Thanks again! |
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25th June 2008, 01:39
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My Mood: Rep Power: 71  | Re: Hello from Northern Colorado Welcome, Nick313. Northern Colorado. Is it still Ski season out there? 
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25th June 2008, 03:29
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Rep Power: 0  | Re: Hello from Northern Colorado Nah, skiing is done for this year. It was in the high 80's today & supposed to hit the 90's tomorrow. Summer has found us! |
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25th June 2008, 05:05
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My Mood: Rep Power: 10  | Re: Hello from Northern Colorado Welcome to the forum and glad to know that you are no longer "lurking!" Actually, I have found th forum to be very supportive, but honest. It doesn't take long to get to kow the people who post and know they are a resource for many ideas. |
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27th June 2008, 06:55
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My Mood: Rep Power: 30  | Re: Hello from Northern Colorado Hey Nick313. It's good that you have come to find that it's OK to be yourself but on the other hand its sad that others like your X can't except it. I have found the perfect sole mate for my high heel passion and consider myself very blessed.
I just wanted to say welcome and I too lived in Greeley for many years through the 70's and 80's. I do miss it. I'm sure you will enjoy it here. It's a great place to be.
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29th June 2008, 20:02
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My Mood: Rep Power: 23  | Re: Hello from Northern Colorado Welcome Nick313 to HHP. I too will join in and say I went through a similar experience as you and my condolences on your divorce. But I hope you are moving forward smoothly and it sounds like your love for high heels will help you fit in here just fine. Please feel free to share your thoughts, opinions, and experiences with us anytime. As you can see, you are among friends with many things in common. Welcome again. |
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4th July 2008, 01:02
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Rep Power: 0  | Re: Hello from Northern Colorado welcome Nick....5"high |
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