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10th December 2007, 21:17
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My Mood: Rep Power: 11  | Re: Lost That Lovin' Feeling----Again JeffB,
I understand where you are. I think we all go through it from time to time. Just don't make the mistake of throwing them all away. It's just far too expensive when the bug bites again, as inevitably it will.
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10th December 2007, 22:52
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Rep Power: 12  | Re: Lost That Lovin' Feeling----Again yes,by all means just store away your heels. if after a year you dont want to wear then maybe it is gone. |
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11th December 2007, 10:08
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Originally Posted by JeffB I don't know what it, what caused it, nor can I fully explain it, but just like back in the spring, I've lost my interest in wearing heels----again. | You may be experiencing a desire to be physically comfortable instead of trying to be a trend setter. It's why I never wear my heels in public. Getting over the fear of public rejection is one thing. Having to maintain the posture required stay balanced in a pair of heels all day in the first place, I imagine, would be a whole other beast. Frankly, I'd rather not put that much stress on my feet and ankles. I love wearing my stilettos while at home, but I prefer the comfort of my hiking boots when out and about any day of the week, especially on rare occasions when I find myself in a mad dash to get somewhere fast.
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12th December 2007, 11:08
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My Mood: Rep Power: 33  | Re: Lost That Lovin' Feeling----Again Thanks for all the comments, everyone. I greatly appreciate them. Lots of insightful opinions, all of which I enjoyed reading and will most certainly take to heart. And don't worry, I didn't throw anything away this time since I don't have all that much anyway. Heh! |
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12th December 2007, 14:13
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My Mood: Rep Power: 8  | Re: Lost That Lovin' Feeling----Again Ah! To wear or not to wear. That is the question. What ever you decide, please don't stop posting here. You've become an icon (somewhat) over the past couple of years. Especially when you posted pictures of yourself in heels at your work station.
Besides, you are by far to interesting person to just disappear (again) from our midst.  |
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19th December 2007, 07:42
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Rep Power: 0  | Re: Lost That Lovin' Feeling----Again Jeff, you are such a pro at this that I hardly feel worthy enough to comment. I find your varying interest to be enlightening. I know that my personal interest in heels changes quite regularly as well. Insights such as this are one reason I have lurked at hhplace for so long. I agree with the others that if it does not cause you undue stress keep whatever supplies you have accumulated.
Also, I could not find the reason that you quit wearing heels last time, so this answers that question.
As was also already said by others, we hope you stay involved here to some extent since you have so much experience and have such a great attitude. I'm sure others agree that it would be great to have you as an offline friend. Best regards, Pumps and denim. |
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21st December 2007, 10:15
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My Mood: Rep Power: 13  | Re: Lost That Lovin' Feeling----Again Jeff, I'm going through a similar type of withdrawal. Are there other external factors that have become more prominent? In my case, working two fairly physically demandng jobs has been a big contributor, but near-equal to that is the fact that I have to take a bit of a trip to get to the one Payless in my area that has my size.
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22nd December 2007, 11:03
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My Mood: Rep Power: 5  | Re: Lost That Lovin' Feeling----Again Well, Jeff you are certainly the hero on this site when it comes to being bold and up front with your heels. I hope you are not wearing MEN"S shoes??? There are many great styles of women's shoes that are more casual. The college kids around here wear heels with white socks and jeans. It is kind of a campy look. I try to wear at least a 2-1/2" heel every time I go out. I have some mocasin type shoes with higher heels that are pretty comfortable and look great. With your boldness, why not wear low cut flats for a change of pace? But please, don't wear men's shoes. How ugly that would be!!! |
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22nd December 2007, 11:09
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My Mood: Rep Power: 64  | Re: Lost That Lovin' Feeling----Again As I said before it comes and goes in waves.
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12th April 2008, 02:08
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My Mood: Rep Power: 23  | Re: Lost That Lovin' Feeling----Again And there's nothing wrong with taking a break from them. When you eventually start wearing them again, I'll bet the excitement will be back. |
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