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View Poll Results: Do you try shoes at the store before buying them? | |
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Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't
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6th January 2007, 10:10
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My Mood: Rep Power: 2  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? Quote:
Originally Posted by dr1819 Most of the time the salespeople make some comment like, "I'm sure she'll enjoy these," to which I reply, "There is no 'she.' I like wearing heels,'" and usually pull up my pant leg and show them. | I absolutely hate that... I've heard those comments come from both male and female employees. Most of the time I tell them they are for me as I find it so irritating that they assume it's for someone else.
I remember one time at payless a girl said to me "she's going to love them" when I asked to see a particular mule in my size and I told her "those are for me". She said something like "that's a shame" which kind of pissed me off but then she tried selling me hose and more shoes which kind of made up for her comment.
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6th January 2007, 11:48
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My Mood: Rep Power: 33  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? Quote:
Originally Posted by dr1819 Most of the time the salespeople make some comment like, "I'm sure she'll enjoy these," to which I reply, "There is no 'she.' I like wearing heels,'" and usually pull up my pant leg and show them. | I've had that happen a time or two. It's no big deal to me, if people want to make value judgments, fine, let 'em. Depending on my mood, I often say in my most casual tone that the shoes are for me. That throws salespeople for a loop, something I get an inward chuckle out of. |
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6th January 2007, 13:28
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My Mood: Rep Power: 4  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? i just buy them from the shop, if they don't quite fit, i go and exchange them for the next size up
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7th January 2007, 03:36
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My Mood: Rep Power: 72  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? I order most of mine through catalogs and if they don't fit right, I call and order another size and return the first pair for a refund. That way I usually get my size right before they run out. Being in the normal women's size range helps a lot also.
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7th January 2007, 19:24
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Rep Power: 27  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? I've gone into this at some length in another thread, so in brief:
I've been shoe shopping today, and in Faith I tried on and bought a pair of very high and pointy knee length stiletto boots. The assistant looked momentarily surprised, but was very friendly and professional. I didn't pay enough attention to the other customers to judge their reaction, but they all seemed to be just as engrossed in their own shopping as I was. As it turned out I'm glad I did try on the boots, as they only had a size nine and I wouldn't have bought them assuming they were too big. True to Faith sizing variance however, they fit like a snug eight!
Chris
Last edited by chris100575 : 7th January 2007 at 20:03.
Reason: Put my name twice for some reason!
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7th January 2007, 22:57
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My Mood: Rep Power: 0  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? The biggest problem for me is to find a store with shoes in my size....really hard to find.
We need more sizes! :-)
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7th January 2007, 23:53
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My Mood: Rep Power: 0  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? Quote:
Originally Posted by chris100575 I've gone into this at some length in another thread, so in brief:
I've been shoe shopping today, and in Faith I tried on and bought a pair of very high and pointy knee length stiletto boots. The assistant looked momentarily surprised, but was very friendly and professional. I didn't pay enough attention to the other customers to judge their reaction, but they all seemed to be just as engrossed in their own shopping as I was. As it turned out I'm glad I did try on the boots, as they only had a size nine and I wouldn't have bought them assuming they were too big. True to Faith sizing variance however, they fit like a snug eight!
Chris | A snug eight? Much too narrow for me. You are a lucky guy. I need at least a snug ten. That's the reason why I am ignoring ordinary shoe shops. As CrazyIcecap said: we need more sizes!
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8th January 2007, 00:06
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Rep Power: 27  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? I know, I'm a UK 7.5 / EU 41 which makes it easy to buy heels that fit. The last pair of Faith boots I bought are marked as an eight and are a looser fit. Go figure. So I now own pairs in sizes 7, 8 and 9 and they all fit.  Guess that's why trying on is important.
Chris
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8th January 2007, 04:46
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My Mood: Rep Power: 13  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? Trying on in the store is a must for me.
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8th January 2007, 08:16
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My Mood: Rep Power: 31  | Re: Shopping for heels: try them on? Quote:
Originally Posted by kneehighs | OK Shafted, what was the girl saying that pointing at your boots?Also good to finally see a vid of a fellow heeler trying on heels in public. I see you were not escorted out of the store and cained or taken off to jail either.LOL
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