Go Back   High Heel Place > High Heel Discussions > For the guys

For the guys Discussion specifically aimed at men wearing high heels.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 12th September 2006, 10:56   #1 (permalink)
I'm a Bronze Member
 

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: UK
I am Male
Posts: 24

Thanks: 5
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Rep Power: 3 heelyandy I'm new here but I'm working on it
Default First "Proper" Heel Outing

Hi

I thought I'd share with everyone my first outing in heels. Nothing exciting compared to some, but its my first proper outing with other people around :D Previous outings have been in isolated places only.

Anyway, this morning I decided that today would be the day, so on the way in to work I stopped in a layby, took off my shoes (normal, boring mens shoes) and put on my boots (black leather, rounded toe, 4" high thicker stiletto heel, size 8 (UK), shafts pierced with small holes to reveal silver underneath with the tops of the shafts curved from back to front (low point front & back, high point in middle of sides, bought last year in Marks & Spencer :D ).

I made sure I was wearing a pair of very long trousers which pretty much hide the heel (and the rather nice silver circles and curved tops)!! I drove on (driving in heeled boots is a lot easier than I expected (this wasn't my first time) as long as the boots have a flexible ankle :D )

I arrived at work and went in, making sure to walk on my toes in the tiled hallway (I didn't want to attract too much attention from colleagues) then went about my normal business. Anyway, we needed some milk for the morning tea, so I went to get it from the petrol station at the local Tesco supermarket about 200 yards away. I enjoyed the "clonk" of my heels on the pavement (rubber/plastic tips, so not a metallic "clack") but also felt a little nervous that the noise would attract attention. I also felt that I was walking a little "wiggly". Anyway, no one said anything and I wasn't aware of anyone stopping in their tracks and staring :o , but on the way back I did hear a car horn, although I didn't look round and it probably wasn't directed at me :D

I'm now back in the office, still in my boots :D and feeling kinda pleased with myself (and my feet are getting quite hot) :D :D
heelyandy is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Old 12th September 2006, 11:06   #2 (permalink)
I'm a Silver Member
 
Thighboots2's Avatar
 

Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: London (D) Cambridge (E&W/E)
Age: 52
I am Male
Posts: 532

Thanks: 75
Thanked 131 Times in 76 Posts
My Mood:
Rep Power: 11 Thighboots2 I'm new here but I'm working on it
Default

Way to go Maudgca,

You certainly picked a warm day to wear boots. Mine are having a nice snooze in the wardrobe until it gets a lot cooler.

Post later on to tell us how the rest of today went for you. Remember, just be natural and as to the noise, decent guy shoes, with leather soles and heels with just a rubber heel protector (not the horible moulded sole/heel type that are not intended to last) clack away just as much.

Have a happy heely day.

TB2
Thighboots2 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Old 12th September 2006, 13:18   #3 (permalink)
I'm a Silver Member
 

Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: usa
I am Male
Posts: 104

Thanks: 7
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Rep Power: 6 wineanddine I'm new here but I'm working on it
Default

Maudgca:

Congratulations! I think my first time I had many of the same observations. In general, most people just don't seem to notice/care and that is so hard to believe until you actually experience it because I was always so nervous and self conscious, as you can imagine.

Keep us posted.

Wineanddine
wineanddine is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Old 12th September 2006, 14:28   #4 (permalink)
I'm a Bronze Member
 

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: UK
I am Male
Posts: 24

Thanks: 5
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Rep Power: 3 heelyandy I'm new here but I'm working on it
Default

Hi again

I'm afraid to say I chickened out at lunchtime and put my "normal" shoes back on

There were a number of reasons. First, I had to go into town, and this early in my public heel wearing "career" I thought maybe that was bit much, secondly, I noticed on this morning's outing that I couldn't walk as fast in heels as in "normal" shoes, and I like to get in and out of the town centre as quick as possible, and thirdly, well... I'm just a bit of chicken really

One good thing though, I called in at the post office, and a pair of boots I ordered last week had arrived :D These are they (hope this works ):-

http://www.pleaserusa.com/pic/seduce-2013-RLE.jpg

Hopefully, if everyone on the office goes home early (there's only 3 of us) I'll try them on later and drive home in them :D

PS - I'm also waiting for a pair of Seduce 2002 boots as in this thread:-

http://www.hhplace.org/hhboard/viewt...ht=seduce+2002

I ordered them at the same time as the 2013s, but they didn't have them stock so I'm waiting for them to cross the Atlantic (being rubber, they should float :lol: ) I like rubber riding boots, but oddly hadn't ever thought of rubber stiletto boots until I saw those :D
heelyandy is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Old 12th September 2006, 17:18   #5 (permalink)
I'm a Gold Member
 
Thighbootguy's Avatar
 

Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Ky, USA
Age: 62
I am Male
Posts: 1,215

Thanks: 72
Thanked 254 Times in 159 Posts
Rep Power: 18 Thighbootguy I've been here a while now and others seem to like me
Default first outing at work?

I appreciate that everyone’s situation is unique but this is the first time I have read of a “first outing” of “going to work”.

In my situation, work is one of the few places I don’t wear heels or boots.

I wonder if you would elaborate a bit on your work environment.

I disagree with your comment, “I chickened out at lunchtime and put my "normal" shoes back on”. Wearing the appropriate clothing/footwear is not a matter of bravery, it’s good taste and common sense. If heels/boots aren’t appropriate at the time, don’t wear them. If they are, go for it.

It sounds like your having fun, please let us know how it goes.
Thighbootguy is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Old 12th September 2006, 17:29   #6 (permalink)
I'm a Bronze Member
 

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: UK
I am Male
Posts: 24

Thanks: 5
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Rep Power: 3 heelyandy I'm new here but I'm working on it
Default

Hi

My work environment is a small office (just 3 of us here) in a building (a largeish old house) with other offices occupied by various different companies. I'm sitting behind a desk most of the time, so my feet are hidden. :D

The only issue is the tiled corridor outside the office door, we have another office on the other side of this corridor (a meeting/store room) and I have to go along it to get to the toilet and kitchen. Not wanting to alert everyone to my footwear, I tiptoed across the corridor when necessary

(If I keep posting at this rate, I'll soon be out of that "comfy loafer" :D )
heelyandy is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Old 12th September 2006, 18:45   #7 (permalink)
Banned Users
 

Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Europe
I am Male
Posts: 1,776

Thanks: 20
Thanked 53 Times in 38 Posts
My Mood:
Rep Power: 0 dr1819 I've been here a while now and others seem to like me
Default

Hey-hey! Way cool!

Of course no one notices my 3" block rubber-heeled boots, but hey - they look like men's boots except for the higher heel.

My 4" heeled boots are more noticeable.

Last night I went for an extended walk to the local castle (about a mile away) wearing long jeans and my 4" cork-wedge-heeled sandals. A bit daring, and I passed exactly no one. Just a few cars on the street, that's it.

Boring, except for the fact that my jeans kept riding up and the hems would get caught between my heel and the sandal. I wound up with pre-blisters (not quite, thank you!) on both heels. On the way back I just rolled my pants up and stopped trying to hide the heels, as it was too painful!
dr1819 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Old 13th September 2006, 00:57   #8 (permalink)
Banned Users
 

Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Frankfurt, Germany
Age: 56
I am Male
Posts: 840

Thanks: 33
Thanked 25 Times in 23 Posts
My Mood:
Rep Power: 0 micha I'm new here but I'm working on it
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by maudgca
Hi

My work environment is a small office (just 3 of us here) in a building (a largeish old house) with other offices occupied by various different companies. I'm sitting behind a desk most of the time, so my feet are hidden. :D

The only issue is the tiled corridor outside the office door, we have another office on the other side of this corridor (a meeting/store room) and I have to go along it to get to the toilet and kitchen. Not wanting to alert everyone to my footwear, I tiptoed across the corridor when necessary

(If I keep posting at this rate, I'll soon be out of that "comfy loafer" :D )
Hi maudgca,

I'm also astonished about your first outing in the office. I never had dared this! I started my "high heels carreer" in the more usual way: after practising on the carpet at home first secrete excursions late in the night. Afterwards my outing at broad daylight in a near by big town. Then at the CSD and in the main shopping mall of my hometown Frankfurt. And finally in the neighbourhood of my quarter. Meanwhile I'm doing my daily purchases on high heeled boots as if it were the most normal footwear for a guy! But I have never dared to wear higher heels at work than 3'' cowboy boots. I'm a free lancer in software development. By the way I had also to accustom my customers to my tribal tattoo and my lip ring ...

My philosophy: always step by step and in small portions

micha (*reckless in his free time*)
micha is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Old 13th September 2006, 15:34   #9 (permalink)
I'm a Bronze Member
 

Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Hampshire, UK
Age: 54
I am Male
Posts: 41

Thanks: 44
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
My Mood:
Rep Power: 7 iggy_ze I'm new here but I'm working on it
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by dr1819
Last night I went for an extended walk to the local castle (about a mile away) wearing long jeans and my 4" cork-wedge-heeled sandals. A bit daring, and I passed exactly no one. Just a few cars on the street, that's it.
Last Thursday I offered to go and get the groceries as I happen to be off work at the moment, a long story. Well I coudnt resist the opportunity and decided to wear
http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k3...e/P2200074.jpg
with jeans and a t-shirt.
Although they may look a little conservative with round toes they are nearly 4 inch heels and I really felt the difference walking across the car park to the store. My hips just seemed to do their own thing and I definetly had a sway in my walk. Got just 1 look from a passing female shopper and she smiled back. Anyway, as I was making my way round the store one older lady approached me and asked 'If she could borrow my height' an interesting phrase, she seemed quite animated and I am sure/hope she noticed as did a few more female shoppers. By the end of the visit my toes were starting to ache a bit as the edge of the toe box was rubbing on the base of my big toe.
The last few dozen yards to the checkout were a little less than graceful, I was hoping that the next customer in the queue would shield me from the gaze of other shoppers. Wouldn't you just know it, as I finished unloading the trolley they decided to shut the till and I was left fully exposed. Lucky me.

Last night I needed to go to the post box and post a few letters, I persuaded my SO to come with me and calmly wandered the 70 yards to the post box wearing
http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k3...e/P2200075.jpg
with jeans. You are absoultly right, the jeans bottoms do seem to catch on the sole of the shoe and rub under ones heel. Guess I will just have to be braver and roll up my trouser legs a bit next time.
iggy_ze is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Old 13th September 2006, 17:36   #10 (permalink)
Banned Users
 

Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Europe
I am Male
Posts: 1,776

Thanks: 20
Thanked 53 Times in 38 Posts
My Mood:
Rep Power: 0 dr1819 I've been here a while now and others seem to like me
Default

Or find a combination that allows you to wear higher heels unnoticed...

:D
dr1819 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.us
Reply With Quote
Reply

  High Heel Place > High Heel Discussions > For the guys



Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


All times are GMT +1. The time now is 03:31.


© hhplace.org - The internet High Heel Community - Run by you - For you!