advice please

looloo22 · 22nd February 2006, 16:44

My long-term boyfriend has recently confessed to me that he wears high-heels when he masturbates. It was a shock at first, but after much discussion, I have assured him that I love him and accept him for who he is. He told me that he has been using my shoes - I was wondering if it would be ok to surprise him with a pair of his own, or would that confuse him or freak him out? I would appreciate any opinions on this. Thanks.

nhoj62 · 22nd February 2006, 16:54

hello looloo22
i think it would be a great thing to get for him
it would show your acceptance of him wearing heels

later
nhoj62

vee6 · 22nd February 2006, 17:57

Well you are very understanding about this situation, I am sure he would be delighted to have you buy him such a gift..

I wish ......

Vee

ShockQueen · 22nd February 2006, 18:18

I also concur with what has been said already. Not only will it show him you are accepting of him, but also keep your shoes from getting a bit....messy (unless you want that). Perhaps even take him out shopping and make a day of it, picking out some styles he enjoys. You've got a great idea going....let us know how it turns out. :)

Dawn HH · 22nd February 2006, 19:25

Looloo22:-)

Welcome to the Forum and I too echoe what has been said here also. I am sure your B/F would be delighted to have you shop with him for his own pair of heels and make it a day out of it. It would be fun for you both and since you are on his side of him wearing heels himself, you could both go out for the day and enjoy wearing heels together as soon as he can walk comfortably in them. I'm sure that he would welcome any and all help you could give him to find a pair of heeled boots for him and to learn all about his new found hobby. Enjoy together.
Cheers---

Dawn HH

Danielinheels · 22nd February 2006, 20:07

If you've discussed it with him and have come to accept it, it would likely be a welcome surprise for him if you were to take him out and let him have styles of his own to wear... think about it, at the very worst, you'll find some stuff you like too ;)

Thighbootguy · 22nd February 2006, 23:46

looloo22 -

Welcome to the forum.

I also think getting your B/F a pair of heels would be a well received gift. From this guys point of view however, shoes would be nice, but boots would be better.

Please let us know how it goes.

HeelD · 23rd February 2006, 00:05

My girlfriend was going to buy me some "ladies" shoes for valentines day but we decided to keep things low key as we're both a little short on cash at the moment.

I think she will get me a pair in the near future and they will be greatly received just like the shoes I bought for her in the past. :D

looloo22- I think it's a superb idea. It's certainly the ultimate in a partner's exceptance for them to buy you a pair of heels (ladies shoes). Maybe as suggested you should treat him to a shopping trip and lunch on the weekend.

larry · 23rd February 2006, 00:54

Some people get off on being spanked or otherwise abused. Some are into wearing leather and other things that may seem strange to many. I have worn high heels for years in private and as a fetish. In the real world I live a good, honest, productive life and my wife understands....... Hope that you two can work this out. ...larry.

Jaiden · 23rd February 2006, 01:56

I think it has a possibility of freaking him out. There may be something about them being your shoes that gets him going. Why don't you ask him to wear a pair of them next time the two of you make love?