Married Boot Lovers

thighbootlover · 21st February 2006, 00:32

I am married. My wife knows about my fetish for boots and I have worn them and that I like to wear them. She is still warming up to the idea. How should I represent it to her to let her know that I want to continue to wear them.

crotchboots-m · 21st February 2006, 02:58

i am married too,and my wife knows about my boots and what i do in them. she doesnt like it,but allows me to do it as long as i dont embarrass her or ignore her needs. i say take it slow...discuss it and find out what her limits are first

iloveboots · 21st February 2006, 03:35

Cathy and I have been amrried 27 years and known one another for 32 now. From day one Cathy has known about my fetish. Heck, how could she not!! My first gift for her was a pair of leather high platform knee Boots in 1975. From day one Cathy has shared my love for Boots and has always found that Boots look very sexy on me. She enjoys when we go out and I am wearing Boots.
How? I believe it all comes down to sharing and openness. She knows I am comfortable and confident, therefore she feeds off that. Be confident! Be yourself...she married you because of who you are....a pair of high heel Boots should never come in the way of that,
david

JSpikeheels · 22nd February 2006, 00:03

How many of us share that secret connection with the dollies out there in public coming and going everywhere in those wonderful stilettos..

..when I see stilettos on the street I get a delicious feeling that I can sense how they might feel..

http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b2...m/MVC-003S.jpg
http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b2...m/DSC05226.jpg
http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b2...m/MVC-006S.jpg

Donna said I could wear them when we go out together "just so long as we don't go where anyone knows me.."

but, a wonderful work in progress..
J

..by the way, these are are here: if anyone else would like to order:
http://www.fredericks.com/product.as...uct%5Fid=67916

vector · 22nd February 2006, 04:32

I say tread slowly as you can't make someone accept or participate in something they don't want to.

JSpikeheels · 22nd February 2006, 04:58

oh please not to worry

the day she accepts them is the day she forgets to notice I decided to just wear them on some outing..today she said "you seem kind of tall tonight are you wearing your spikeheels?"

.."nuh uhhh" ..so she had to look to be sure..lol
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but, seriously,

like many of you have mentioned previously... as we become accustomed to wearing them more the focus shifts away from the "event" and they become mostly just part of what makes our world go around...as we (pretend to) notice them less others are less likely to pay attention to our little drama being played out..

.so the question becomes: is wearing them a big deal or is it not..on one hand they are the Centers Of Our Universe so how can we possibly downplay them and pretend they are just somethng we wear on our feet??

how can the two opposite expressions co-exist??
comments??
J

Dawn HH · 22nd February 2006, 19:11

Mickey has known that I wear heels for many, many years now and goes along with them and my fondness for wearing them. We were just in a DSW store yesterday looking for shoes for us both. Fortunately or unfortunately, (which ever way you look at it), neither one of us found anything that sparked our fancies.
Cheers---

Dawn HH