have any of you approached a high heeled woman in the street

taliheels · 25th July 2005, 19:37

have any of you approached a high heeled woman in the street (ie followed her) and complimented her on her footwear- if so what was her reaction?- do any of you do it reguarly?, id love to but lose my nerve- damn

asdf174 · 25th July 2005, 19:42

I wish. Don't have the balls to.

highHEELman · 25th July 2005, 23:09

I never fail to compliment a lady on her Fine Feminine Footwear. If I really like them, I will ask where she got them and get a pair for myself. Wearing a pair of Anne Klien's I saw on a customer!
Maybe she might be into some Heeling around!

Bubba136 · 27th July 2005, 14:53

While approaching a woman and complimenting her on her shoes might be considered a bit forward and unusual in most circumstances, a womal noticing a man following her, looking at her shoes, might be considered "stalking" and very frightening to her. Caution being the better part of valor, I wouldn't follow any woman ver far just to get a good look at her feet and shoes. Better to get a catalog.

Fog · 27th July 2005, 18:52

I might have in the dim and distant past! Compliments are only ok if they have the ring of truth about them. Men are much more reticent than women, I was out in a pair of 4" Nine West boots Monday lunchtime - Fulham broadway - I wasn't aware that anyone noticed my footwear, I wore a fairly non descript green shirt, and new pin striped jeans that looked more like the bottom of a suit. Within a couple of minutes of each other one woman said "nice shoes" I responded with a quite pleased with my self thank you and she smiled and said Your welcome. That was in the tube station just out on the street another woman remarked Good Shoes, but she was just trying to get my attention, she was touting for a charity. But it gave me a little boost. If I were single I'd wear heels far more often...
But getting back to the thread, for a man it's so rare to get a compliment from an attractive woman that it gives you a boost and we don't find it creepy, but I'm sure it could be a bit scary if it came in a persistant way from the wrong woman.

Nigel · 27th July 2005, 21:45

Hi,

I have been polite and thanked them for wearing some great heels.

Dublin airport was the last time, a great pair of metal heels, wow.

I have always been smiled at and thanked, I then walked away and left them to their everyday business.

after all, I have a great wife at home!

Nigel

Firefox · 27th July 2005, 23:45

Occasionally, but it has happened the other way round. Ie we are both wearing heels and she has approached me and asked where I got my shoes, and then I'll usually ask about hers if they are remotely interesting. I guess this doesn't quite count, but if you are actually wearing heels yourself, it makes it a lot easier to get into a conversation because it makes you part of the club.

Shafted · 28th July 2005, 03:55

I've talked to women who are on the rare occasion are wearing high heels in order to compliment them on their choice of footwear. I never actively follow them though. This has led to some fun conversations about heels. I have found those women gracious for the compliment.

sexyplatforms · 28th July 2005, 13:57

Dear all,

There was an occasion in the summer of 2004 when I was at a gig with friends. In the bar before the performance, this amazing vision of (my idea) high heeled perfection slinked past us in the bar. Initially noticing a beautiful woman in a sexy short dress baring lovely smooth legs, I was exhilarated when I recognized that she was also wearing a gorgeous pair of 6" spike-heel platform 'stripper' shoes. After this I found it extremely difficult to take my eyes off her! Her heels featured clear units and black patent leather uppers with wrap-around ankle straps and fitted snugly on her exceptionally pretty feet. Initially, I admired from afar but, at the interval, when I was back in the bar again on my own, my heart took a leap when I saw her again, moving gracefully up the stairs towards me. Immediately I resolved to talk to her with a view to complimenting her on her shoes. Shortly, and after, I think it's not immodest to say, some deft manoeuvring (on account of her boyfriend being present) I was able to express my admiration for her sexy heels and the way in which she wore and moved in them. She was obviously very happy to be complimented in this way and our conversation was so positive that before long, I'd told her about my own enthusiasm for platform wearing. Blissfully, after she'd assured herself that I was being serious, she took an interest and I had a lovely and rewarding conversation with her about our high heel collections and about high heeling in public.

My abiding memory of the gig was not the music of course (excellent though it was), but the thrill of meeting a plaform goddess named Anne - who drew the attention of all around her (much of which seemed to be focussed on her fantastic shoes) but who, in addition to being ravishingly erotic in appearance, was gifted with a remarkably charming and sweet nature.

SP

crotchhiboots · 28th July 2005, 15:43

Last Friday I saw a girl at a meeting and I was about to conpliment her about her platform flipflops and she complimented me on my tan and cork 3" wedges. She also liked my nail polish and nose percing.