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29th January 2007, 20:31
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Rep Power: 27  | Re: Good Responses From Women: The Ultimate Resource I've posted about this at length elsewhere, so I'll be brief, but I think it's relevent here:
I was out in Manchester with some friends, and there were two girls standing at the bar, one of which was wearing a very attractive pair of black patent platform Mary Janes with very high chunky heels. She caught me looking at her shoes, and said "You like my shoes, don't you?". I was honest and told her that they looked great on her, and that I'd noticed them because I wear heels myself. Both her and her friend thought it was really cool, and she asked what size I wore. It turned out we were both an eight, and she immediately asked if I wanted to try on her shoes and I spent a very happy few minutes wearing them. She complimented me on my ability to walk, my shaved legs and having nice feet! Unfortunately she had a boyfriend, but she did invite me to join them at the club they were going on to, and offered to let me wear her shoes there.
Sadly I had to decline as I didn't want to run out on the friends I'd come out with. In addition to the two girls, when I got outside one of the girls with us, who I don't really know, said that I looked great in the heels and that she loved that a masculine guy could wear heels.
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30th January 2007, 19:35
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Rep Power: 6  | Re: Good Responses From Women: The Ultimate Resource This last weekend at the singles dance, I danced with 5 or 6 different women, while wearing my black leather ankle boots with 5" heels.
While out on the dance floor with one woman, another looked over at me and said loudly, "I love your boots!" |
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11th February 2007, 06:00
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My Mood: Rep Power: 29  | Confidence is Sexy ^ Thanks for the story Magickman. Confidence is Cool and Sexy This girl from Hot Or Not in response to this picture of me on Hot Or Not concluded "youre cool
i love that you dont give a crap what people think and u do youre own thing
very admirable!" Her initial response went as follows," Well I have no prob with it....its highly unusual however..especially since you have no designs to be a woman.
What got u started on it? Are you just looking for attention? IS it sexual?" |
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11th February 2007, 13:20
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My Mood: Rep Power: 33  | Re: Confidence is Sexy Quote:
Originally Posted by kneehighs What got u started on it? Are you just looking for attention? IS it sexual?" | Well, for me, curiosity about how my mom could walk in high heels got me started back when I was around 14 and the only way I could answer that question was to wear her shoes. Right then and there, I caught the bug and the rest was history. Attention? God no! I don't worry about that sort of thing. While the sight of a man wearing high heels can indeed be attention grabbing, especially for a guy as tall as I am (6-2), all I want is to blend in with my surroundings as best I can and go about my business. The sexual angle? In the very beginning perhaps, admittedly, it was rather stimulating, arousing even, but not anymore. Nowadays, heels are just another part of my wardrobe, nothing more.  |
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11th February 2007, 19:45
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Originally Posted by kneehighs ^ Thanks for the story Magickman. Confidence is Cool and Sexy This girl from Hot Or Not in response to this picture of me on Hot Or Not concluded "youre cool
i love that you dont give a crap what people think and u do youre own thing
very admirable!" Her initial response went as follows," Well I have no prob with it....its highly unusual however..especially since you have no designs to be a woman.
What got u started on it? Are you just looking for attention? IS it sexual?" | I'd like to try hotornot.com too, but it keeps asking for my login, not matter what I do. |
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11th February 2007, 20:25
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Originally Posted by kneehighs ^ Thanks for the story Magickman. Confidence is Cool and Sexy This girl from Hot Or Not in response to this picture of me on Hot Or Not concluded "youre cool
i love that you dont give a crap what people think and u do youre own thing
very admirable!" Her initial response went as follows," Well I have no prob with it....its highly unusual however..especially since you have no designs to be a woman.
What got u started on it? Are you just looking for attention? IS it sexual?" | Kneehighs, forgive me if I've missed something, but do you have a link to your hotornot page? I'd like to see comments in the original setting. I'm sure others would as well. Thanks.
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11th February 2007, 20:34
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My Mood: Rep Power: 29  | Re: Good Responses From Women: The Ultimate Resource ^ You didn't miss anything. Here is a link to my Hot or Not page: http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EZNZBQR&key=DHN
No one can leave comments on anyone's page at Hot Or Not though.
The comments made to me were done through Hot or Not's internal Private Message system, based on the system's Double Match program. A Double Match is made only if two people both click the YES button to meet each other.
If I had the software to create screen shots, I would, to lend credibility to my words. I'd have to bore you guys with other snippets of our conversation to include the entire text for context.
Pumps Once you register for an account just like you did here, then you can upload pics straight from your computer.
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Reason: add last 3 sentences
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11th February 2007, 20:38
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My Mood: Rep Power: 9  | Re: Confidence is Sexy Copied from a reply to Kneehighs on another thread:
Several years ago, a Boricua wearing those J.Lo Timberland imitations chatted me up when I was in a well known bar/club in NYC which specialises in Caribbean music. I was wearing black ankle boots very much like them, they came from a site I've mentioned on these boards before.
She asked me about my boots and we got into a discussion about men's clothing styles. I gathered she doesn't like the "thugz" thang. I told her that as long as women fall all over "thugz" and the media such as eMpTyV promote it, that men/boys will continue to wear it.
I saw her in the club a few times after that. She looked a fair amount as LaLopez did in her more Boricua days, the bountiful behind and all.
No fear of "R'n'B types" here, but caution of anyone with a shaven head and FUBU. "Thugz" are "Thugz," period.
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Wanted to add that she was very pretty. She was dressed in a full skirt with the boots and had a tam on her head. She also had the obviously blondined hair and wore blue eyeshadow so beloved of Boricuas. She did have a bountiful behind, and I miss LaLopez' behind. Where did it go?
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11th February 2007, 20:45
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My Mood: Rep Power: 9  | Re: Good Responses From Women: The Ultimate Resource Quote:
Originally Posted by kneehighs ^ You didn't miss anything. Here is a link to my Hot or Not page: http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EZNZBQR&key=DHN
No one can leave comments on anyone's page at Hot Or Not though.
The comments made to me were done through Hot or Not's internal Private Message system, based on the system's Double Match program. A Double Match is made only if two people both click the YES button to meet each other.
If I had the software to create screen shots, I would, to lend credibility to my words. I'd have to bore you guys with other snippets of our conversation to include the entire text for context.
Pumps Once you register for an account just like you did here, then you can upload pics straight from your computer. | Is it noticeable that you are wearing heels? I can't see it.
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11th February 2007, 20:53
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My Mood: Rep Power: 29  | Re: Good Responses From Women: The Ultimate Resource Is it noticeable??? It's very noticeable! Just scroll down.
Thanks for adding the story about the girl wearing the J Lo Timberland imitations...
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