How to tell wife/woman to accept man wear High Heels ?

8822 · 19th August 2004, 09:15

Or how to start tell her about this :(
Please answer gals or guys
Thanks for all answer
El

genebujold · 19th August 2004, 12:22

Question: "How to tell wife/woman to accept man wear High Heels?"

Answer: You can't! All you can do is is be yourself while presenting her with the evidence of men's heel wear throughout the ages (available under several of my recent posts).

At that point, she's going to make up her own mind and either relent or stiffin her resolve, at which point you'll have to make a choice - her way or the highway?

I'll say this - you can have fun with your heeling, but a relationship means far, far more than a little (or even a lot) of fun, so choose wisely. And who knows? Perhaps in five years when many guys are out heeling she'll come around.

8822 · 19th August 2004, 13:36

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Originally Posted by genebujold

Question: "How to tell wife/woman to accept man wear High Heels?"

Answer: You can't! All you can do is is be yourself while presenting her with the evidence of men's heel wear throughout the ages (available under several of my recent posts).

At that point, she's going to make up her own mind and either relent or stiffin her resolve, at which point you'll have to make a choice - her way or the highway?

I'll say this - you can have fun with your heeling, but a relationship means far, far more than a little (or even a lot) of fun, so choose wisely. And who knows? Perhaps in five years when many guys are out heeling she'll come around.

genebujold
your wife share with you the High Heels? :(
how to start to walk in High Heels for man if he tall
and do you have tips for me for the beginning
thanks to all for help me
El

genebujold · 20th August 2004, 13:52

Hey, El - check http://www.hhplace.org/hhboard/viewt...?p=62745#62745

I covered it all.

thedesigner · 9th March 2007, 02:04

start with cowboy boots and work your way up (literally). She'll tell you when they're too high.....

chris100575 · 9th March 2007, 20:08

He asked that question two years ago...

Chris

johnieheel · 13th March 2007, 07:27

You just put em on and say " Hey hon, how do these look?" Then take it from there. Be brave man!

drumitt · 13th March 2007, 11:51

Please read my "mellow with age" thread. It all ended in disaster for me. Just be very careful.

soular · 13th March 2007, 14:50

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Originally Posted by chris100575

He asked that question two years ago...

Chris

this is what i was thinking

Firefox · 13th March 2007, 19:25

You can't tell her. The best way is simply to wear them as your normal footwear and not comment on them. If you are introducing someone to the concept, start with more moderate heels and gradually work up to what you normally wear, or if it is discussed, what they are comfortable with if it's acceptable to you.

Women normally have two types of objections.

1. That you are going to get attacked, the roof of the world will fall in, you'll lose all your friends, or nobody will ever speak to you as a couple again. Once you have worn heels out and about and they realise this fear is totally unfounded, then this objection will go away. You don't need to say anything. You simply need to demonstrate.

2. Some kind of religious or upbringing objection. This is usually, but not always, brought about from a narrow kind of upbringing or lack of exposure to modern trends. Like most deep seated or illogical fears, you won't be able to do anything to change it. Far better to agree to disagree and ditch that person. It will be better for you and them in the long run. There's no point either of you being unhappy because you can't tolerate someone elses idea.