HHfanatic

Think this situation...

You are singel, been singel for a looong time.
Your last girlfriend kicked you out becouse of your "need" of high heels.
And finelly you find this girl, she is perfect...well, almost..she just dont like high heels. Not for herself, and absolutly not on you.

Would you kick her out and continue looking for another partner that understand your needs better? Even thow she may not be that perfect as this one?

Danielinheels

How willing is she to compromise? I think the fact that you're upfront about who you are, and were willing to show how "different" you are speaks well to your character, and if she can't get over herself, then it's her loss.

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demoniaplatforms

I for one 2nd that answer! (hint" she aint worth your time")

t-strap lover

If I had it to do over again, I would go for a girl that liked heels and supported me in my heel wearing.

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flavio

A girl that don't like or at least wear high heels herself is not for me, sorry if it's too cheap.
My wife wears heels herself, she's not passionate but she is tasty in her shoe selection. She respects my heeling, doesn't approve for outdoor wearing but is ok with my shoe taste.

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secondtake20

I am going through this right now. We split for other reasons and I hope to one day find a women who wears heels and supports my wearing heels passion.

Maximilian!

For me, a womans' fashion taste plays a big part in my physical attraction towards her. While I won't expect her to wear heels all the time, she would have to be a woman who enjoys wearing heels. My ex did not wear heels and it honestly bothered me.

At this point in my life, I'm aware that I'll always enjoy/want to include heels as part of my wardrobe. If my gf/partner who won't be able to accept this, I'm afraid the relationship will fail simply because I believe that your partner should accept you for who you are, at least when it comes to the things most dear to you. Dressing up how I wish IS important to me. If she can't handle it then it simply won't work.
It's a crappy deal since finding a woman you like who likes you as well is hard enough these days. Finding one that would accept the fact that her man likes to wear heels makes it MUCH harder.
I am who I am though.

johnieheel

Simple. If she cannot except me for who I am, don't waste my time.

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yozz

I am seconding what Johnie says.
If she cannot accept you for what you are, it is hard to see how she can be
perfect. If she only wants you because of your looks and your role and you
accept that you will not be living your own life. Eventually that will create
enormous stress.
Presumably you can postpone your heeling for some time, but the general
pattern is that in the end the urge becomes stronger and stronger. What will
happen then? Will she accept?
Of course she doesn't have to be enthousiastic about it, as long as she
will not see it as a cause to break up, or to nag you about it.
If she doesn't have that in her, staying with here is a recipe for future
trouble. You can read that here in many threads.
Tolerance is enough, enthousiasm is profit.

Y.

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Raise your voice. Put on some heels.

Thighboots2

I'm with you Johnieheel.

Simon.

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