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Old 30th August 2008, 09:43   #1 (permalink)
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I went out to a fetish club and wore my boots, I was exceedingly nervous but a few JD's and coke and I calmed down a bit. It felt great to be out in my boots but still nervous and I didn't really know anyone there either. I have often sat at home and had a few drinks, in my boots, and yes the balance goes a bit but I kind of struggled that night in my boots, but I put it down to nerves.
I went to the same club a second time,took a pair of boots with but didn't put them on. Later in the night I got into a long conversation with a post-op TS about her boots, I then told her about mine, showed them to her and she said to put them on and f**k what the others thought about it. Good advice ,

but s&m is not my scene so I think I need to try somewhere else. Must be other fetish clubs where s&m is not the focus? Strangely I also felt that some people did not entirely approve of me being in hhboots, and this after seeing them beat each other, what a bloody cheek!! Someone subtlely suggested that I buy some horse riding boots and wear them in future, not bad advice but, it's the heels I like baby!! All in all, it was my first 'public' outing, even if it was a fetish club, and by and large it was great. I know I can go there again cause they've seen me in my boots now, the hardest hurdle was jumped!

I might considering going to a TV club just so I can go out in my boots and socialise. I'll need to buy some clothes for it but its not about the clothes for me, just want to go out in my boots. Actually, not sure about going to a TV club, more like an option to consider. Don't really want to wear make up, wigs ext. Maybe a skirt/kilt because it shows the boots of beautifully.

Anybody want to open a pub for people who like to wear high heels? Everyone would be welcome but they'd have to wear heels.

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You should come down to Club Rub in London. There are plenty of guys in heels...
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You should come down to Club Rub in London. There are plenty of guys in heels...
I've been meaning to go to Club Rub for ages. I think you've given me the motivation to go
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I am impressed Beigeboots, well done! You really are a brave guy. I myself am still house bound when in heels but the courage is coming.
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Beigeboots -

Would you provide a description of the boots you wore?

Sounds like going the fetish club got you out the door but there are other places you can go besides clubs. Soon you will realize that most folks don't care what you have on your feet.
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Beigeboots, you should check back in the archives and read what Jspikeheels has to say about wearing 4" and 5" boots in public. He has worn his boots all over, even around Disneyland in Florida.

I'm sure you will find sufficient inspiration to get out of the house in your boots from his experiences.
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I started venturing out in heeled boots in fetish clubs too and I'm slowly getting more courage to wear them in another places, like getting out of home, parking the car and going from the car to the club, walking in crouded places at night and so on. It's good and you're on the way to go!
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Hi, thanks for all the feed back.

Ok, the boots I wore were my thigh high, black boots from Pleaser. I had them tucked underneath my PVC trousers, trousers without a bootcut (it was a fetish club - strict dress code and I like the PVC trousers and boots look) but the heels themselves were clearly visible. The second time I went was the same trousers but I had my black matt. leather knee high boots with me. When I finally put them on I just zipped them on over my trousers, felt GREAT!! Have to add that I was well full of liquid courage by then.

I got changed at the end of the night and wore my normal jeans and shirt home but when I got off the bus I realised the street was really quite and I knew once around the corner I would have a tree lined street with plenty of cover so I put my boots on under my jeans and walked home in them. A few cars drove past me but don't think anyone noticed. Both pairs of boots have a 5" heel and my thigh high boots look like Highestheels' avatar, but black.

Club Rub, I'll check the internet for more details, sounds good though, yeah, I'm looking for some sort of club where I can get more use to wearing my boots in front of men and women before I even think about going out in public. Get use to wearing them in semi public first.

Highestheels, thanks, hey, you might want to consider trying it out in a club for the first time too, I won't lie and say it was easy, I was really nervous both times but I think the more I go and the more I do it, the easier and more natural it'll become. One kind old lady told me that there was another man that liked to wear boots and hhshoes, which did make me feel a bit more comfortable, unfortunately he didn't turn up either of the nights I was there.

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Keep going sounds like you are enjoying yourself!
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Your right, I did enjoy it but it took quite a bit out of me, nerves wise. Would have been easier if there had been other guys there in heels. There was a xdress guy there on the second night but he had flat shoes on, no heels at all.

One woman suggested that I take a look at Eddie Izzard for some ideas on how to dress and pull off the high heels. I like his style, he's not over the top. Might still try his 'look' sometime, think it could be fun but again, I need to find a different club as the s&m is fine but not my scene.
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