thatotherguy

I'm just planning to tell my girlfriend about this great community. But just before I do that I want to know about you guys' wives/SO and how they knew about this site, if they know of course...

shyguy

I told my wife about this site a few years back, she often watches over my shoulder and reads the posts while I browse.

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johnieheel

Yes, I told my wife about it when I first met her. She is now a member but usually sits next to me and shares it together.

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Celso999

No, she hates my interest in high heels and she does not want to know anything about other men who have the same interest. I avoid to use high heels in front of her, although I did it sometimes, when she just pretended she was accepting it. I decided not to stress our relation since I can use them when she's not home and also I use loafers with 3 inches heels at work whenever I feel like.

radiodave

I told my wife when we were together, and she read some of the posts. She was cool with it, and was pleased that I found other "kindred spirits". I plan to tell the next S/O who comes along too, and she's going to be cool with it too!

HotBootGuy

I don't really have any interest to tell wifey about the site. I originally started wearing HH boots in public after i put a pair of hers on in front of her and mentioned that i wanted to be a trendsetter and from then on she has no problem with it and it's just like an everyday thing now, just jealous when i get a new pair of boots and she doesn't . The site is cool to meet others like myself but i don't really feel like i had to go to lengths for her to realize that this might actually become mainstream. It's just a place for me to talk about my experiences and to see how others are embracing their love for heels.

gwl1

My wife doesn't have any interest in high heels herself, putting comfort first, which to her means flats. However, she's ok with me in heels, bless her heart! Nevertheless, even that took some years of getting used to - I was always pushing the envelope. But it got me where I wanted to be as far as her level of acceptance, so I'm happy.

She doesn't have any interest in learning about other guys who share my passion, but she knows about this site and doesn't have any problem with me reading it and posting on it. She just thinks I'm weird, but my hobby is harmless and she knows where I am at night -with her!

There's another similar forum called Legwear as Unisex Fashion that promotes tights and pantyhose as male fashion:

http://forums.delphiforums.com/legwearuf

I participate in that forum, too, but she doesn't have any interest in reading or posting there either.

GWL

Nigel

no worries here,

quite a few members have been brave enough to pop over to meet us, share a cup of tea/coffee or even stay long enough to get a pizza in.

Hey, if you are anywhere near here, let me know, I would be good to meet you.

For me it was good to share the site, I realised that I didn't have to be weird, strange, gay or mad to like heels. There are loads of us guys out there that like high heels, what a relief to know I have found you lot.

Meeting other high heel fans is great. I recommend it.

Nigel.

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flavio

I told my wife about the site in the same day I told her about my passion for high heels.

She's absolutely ok with it, sometimes she asks me what are we discussing around here and even asks if I'm taking some spare time to come to the forum when I'm stressed at work.

She doesn't want/need to participate and is not passioned for shoes, she wears high heels for work as an obligation and in the weekends to coordinate with her clothes.

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maninkirt

I have been telling my girlfreind about this site and she´s ok with I´m doing postings here.