Well, I tried - Page 2

HHDude · 28th July 2008, 08:53

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Originally Posted by shyguy

It's a step in the right direction if that's where you want to be. I've only tried womens shoes on in store once, and not since. Kudos to you for following your own path.

Thanks alot, shyguy ^_^ Appreciate it.

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Originally Posted by Bubba136

HHD! Great experience, wasn't it? Don't be in such a rush, though. Take your time and just enjoy your time away from school. Shopping at thrift stores does have it's good points. Nice, nearly new, little worn, shoes.

Fully aware of it, Bubba. I wanted to start low before going to (what's the prices for Payless?) $20, I think it is. Used and/or worn as they are, doesn't matter too much to me. And as for the rush...well, no rush at all. Heh, I should slow it down a bit, huh? Still have a summer to look forward to finishing off. That, and Summer Reading for my school x.x

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Originally Posted by jmc

Shoe shopping is a lot like fishing, a lot of times you come back empty-handed. (And don't get me going on "the one that got away".)

Keep at it, perseverance pays off in the end. You have made a start.

I hear yah there. The pair I saw were rather old-fashioned. Leather cork wedges looking like they were from the '70's or something. And they were a size 11! Although I know 2 sizes up from a 10 would be my range, I'm looking to try these on next time I visit. Comfy or no? We'll see next time, IF they're there

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Originally Posted by johnieheel

Kind of a rush huh? Just be yourself and don't pay any attention to what others are doing or thinking. Have fun. It's only shoes.

Sounds good to me. LOL

Haha, thanks.

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Originally Posted by Histiletto

There will be more available times for these opportunities. So, put on your heels and strut your stuff in a world of fun.

I'm getting there, stiletto. Just bear with me for a sec! :D

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Originally Posted by hhboots

I only bought heels in a store a couple of times myself, I was just a bit older than you at the time, and it was quite nerve racking. It takes a great deal of courage to do at a store. Fortunately, the internet has been fantastic shoe store for me in recent years.

Sounds like you did really well this time, keep it up, you'll feel a great relief when you do accomplish it.

I know. I hope to overcome this, and shoot. Probably change the way my town looks at males in heels. Pretty big goal, right?

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Originally Posted by fastfreddy2

I think you did very well.

Keep up the 'good work'.

Thanks alot, freddy.

aussieheels1 · 28th July 2008, 11:11

good on ya HHD... you've done better than me already... i've brought many a pairs of heels in stores but have never tried a pair on in store.... all the best... enjoy the experience as much as you can.....

astrid · 28th July 2008, 14:12

You have bettered me HHD and I have been wearing heels for years now. I have never tried heels on before in a shop.

As others have said, many shopping trips can be fruitless. You have simply fallen off the bicycle, so now its time to dust yourself off and get back on there. Trust me, when you find the right pair it will be more than worth it.

HHDude · 29th July 2008, 09:46

Thanks all for words of encouragement. I do admit, I was scared at first, but I pushed through and tried on a few. As there were no stools or anything to sit on nearby, I had to kinda sit on this attempt. But it paid off. Upped my confidence some.

And now, I'm ready for my next visit. Mom's asking me to go to the store tomorrow. Maybe I won't have the sis again and I'll be on my way to the thrift store Again! :D Wish me luck!

Stilettoscot · 29th July 2008, 13:23

Nice. I didn't see this 'til now. Glad you are having fun with it all...and remember, don't do anything until you are ready to!
Good luck.

t-strap lover · 29th July 2008, 13:41

Hi HHD, You might think about saving your money till you have enough to get a new pair at payless and get the pair you really want. You might get waited on by a lady that would be glad to help you pick out a pair. There are several ways to get them to your room. One would be to carry them in a back pack. I know most people still in school have to have them. If not then get a family member to buy you a pack. You just have to say you need one for the new school year.

thedesigner · 30th July 2008, 00:06

I go in the store in heels anyway, maybe not 5", so it's just a regular purchase of new heels before i try them on.
I take uk 6 or 7 depending, so i need to try. If you have a favourite store, become a regular, they will know you and welcome you in time.

HHDude · 2nd August 2008, 01:05

I thank you all for your comments. Now, after the confidence boost that day AND the confidence of going to pay my car note (with mom's money, of course!), I have done it. At only 17 years of age....

HHDude has bought himself his 1st not one, but 2 pairs of high heels!

From..a Thrift Store!

YAY! I was soo proud of myself getting the first pair that I just had to get another, and they were both cheap, of course! But wearable nonetheless. Now, although they were probably used once or twice, I didn't care. While I had the confidence boost yesterday, I needed to seize the moments I had to get me a pair, at a very low price (too low). Plus, my mom was out, so I had the chance to hide them as well!

But to the story....
Yesterday, I had to go pay the car note, cause my "birthday truck" wasn't paid off fully yet, so I went. While my mom, little sis, AND step-dad were out to Chicago for 4 hours! Now, this is perfect, I thought and went home before I left out again. I went to the first place, Salvation Army the store's called. I went in, and again, pretty crowded but less people in the "Shoes" section, just browsers mainly. So I again went to the side with no one on it, and I looked ahead. A seat to try the shoes on! :D Did they read my mind? lol, but I went to the chair. It was part of a courtyard table set, so I pulled it out and turned it so I could try on some heels. I looked around, took a deep breath (which really calmed me down), and started grabbing pairs, including the wedges I saw last week.

I tried them on immediately...rather, I took them from the shelf which they were like on the other side of me, and brought them so I could sit and try them on, socks on. :o They fit like a charm! And believe me when I say this: I felt every single emotion you would when you try on your first pair, especially in store!

Well, I took them back off and put them next to me on the shelf, hoping no one would take them while I was there, cause I really wanted these. They felt so perfect. Even with the socks on, they still felt like they were meant to be mine. It was (as everyone says) like a dream come true: they were wedges, and were somewhat high, 2" plat 4" heel....I'll leave it at: They were perfect :D

So, they're next to me, and I continue to look for other heels I could put into consideration for next time (which comes the same day, btw). I saw: a few stilettos, gold ones I really liked but couldn't fit; some Mary Jane's I was interested in, but not what I was looking for; a few clogs; some flats - heck! I saw the whole echelada (that how you spell it?)! Took them from the shelf, went back to my seat, tried them on, put them back. It was a not-too-long cycle going, with few probably not caring at all, to all who were looking. And I actually had fun, if you can have that happen with your 1st pair. It was a great moment I'll never forget :)
(Not to forget about my HUGEE confidence boost I got from it :D

Now, as for the 2nd pair, haven't measured them yet but look pretty high, I got them much later, after taking some pics of me in my 1st pair (which I'll put up soon), socks and without, and boy! My feet never looked so good! There's just a small little problem with them: the padding....well, it doesn't feel like any padding is on them, so I'll buy the needed padding for them later.

But, back to the 2nd pair. I got them at another Thrift Store not to far from the Salvation Army I was at. They seem to have a much wider variety of heels there. Even the oldest of the old were here, but they were all separated from the more newer ones, so that was good. I knew where NOT to search. lol, but yeah. I browsed once again at the even-wider selections, and saw a few interesting ones, including some MJ's that were clog-like, and other very high ones, highest being probably 4-5". I saw some that I liked, but were too small for me :'( and others that looked nice, but I couldn't pull myself to try them on, maybe because it was nearing closing time. But one pair I couldn't keep my eyes off of were actually on an up-front table when you first come in. I saw them once before, but thought Nahh. They won't fit me. But I soon came to realization that...I didn't try them on, so how did I know I couldn't fit 'em?

So, I went back to grab them from the table, and go in the nearest aisle behind me, and try them on. A couple of people went by, actually, and either didn't pay me no mind, or they saw me but didn't care (and I'm betting on the 2nd option). But I went on to try these [what looked like] goth-like skyscrapers from Hot Topic (original place it must have come from before being donated). And what do you know? They fit on well without socks, that is. :D Since it was a last-minute decision because the place was about to close, I decided to get them.

Then, after a trip to the Grocery Store and a call from mom (went past my curfew a little bit

), I decided, These things I got are pretty high. Wonder how I would fair with driving in them... so I grabbed the right shoe (probably would of been the left shoe in the UK

), took my sock off, and put it on. Wow. Despite I wasn't even standing in these skyscrapers, my knee showed how much taller I would be if I were standing. I scoot my seat back, and went on home.

The End :D

P.s. Now, as I typed this, I kinda regret not going into the store with the first pair I got. I think no one would have cared. Seemed like a friendly "neighborhood" store, so don't think anyone would give any lip of what I was wearing. I kinda regret it now, but next time! Oh ho! I'm going in there with confidence in what I'm wearing, no matter what :D

Thanks for reading!

Bubba136 · 2nd August 2008, 01:23

Good on ya !!! HHD!!!

HHDude · 2nd August 2008, 01:34

Thanks, Bubba

Just uploaded the pics of my 1st pair. Gotta take some with the 2nd pair, but they'll come soon. But, don't you all just love the pair I nailed?

Didn't wanna take off the tag just yet, btw xD