Courage

wolf · 18th July 2008, 19:39

Did this site have give you the courage to wear your heels outside?

For me is.. YES! Thank you!

Stilettoscot · 18th July 2008, 20:44

Hard one to answer, as yes I was already wearing them out, I wasn't nearly as bold and styled as I am now! I thank this site for helping me out, so now I wear them out proud with a decent outfit with them, as opposed to just sneaking around at night and empty places!

IBL70 · 18th July 2008, 21:09

I 've just made my first outing this month , and i wear heels since so far i can't remember . I did my first outing now because here at HHP i've found the only place on the planet where i can share my experience . Can you remember your first outing ? and how fast your heart was beating ? You need to share this moment with someone , and here it's the only place where people understand . So a big yes for me !
And maybe i'll get the courage to do in in public one day ! this will be the next step .

crotchboots-m · 18th July 2008, 21:58

i found by accident that no one really cares if you wear in public. i was using a public beach to swim in my fetish boots and leather and this couple came by to my(up till then)secluded swimming spot. after a brief startlement,they merely went about there business. i was intrigued by this,so later on i went to an outlet mall in my gear and walked around. i found that the public has 3 distinct reactions to such a sight... #1-they act like you are not even there #2-they briefly stare and then act like you are invisible #3-they go apeshit,staring,pointing,giggling,whatever. this is the smallest group and usually is comprised of brainless adolescents in groups of 3 or more. ive been doing this for several(about 10) years. i also go to various appointments all dressed up. now when i dont dress up the staff will ask what happened to my fetish gear. other things have happened also...2 of my neighbors shun me now like i have the plague...no great loss i say. glad i know what they are made of now...lol. but the really cool people that i know dont let it bother them,i am still the same of pre-fetish boot and leather dude they knew before. so to all that are afraid of people not liking you for wearing heels,dont let it bother you. the ones that abandon you probably werent worth knowing in the first place.

sabotalot · 18th July 2008, 22:02

Speaking of appointments, this past winter I went to the dentist in my HH open-back clogs. I think it helped reduce the discomfort that can be experienced there.

thedesigner · 19th July 2008, 01:55

made the mistake of wearing laceups to my dentist...
he said my tongues all furry...
just cos they were leopardskin...
if i wanted that advice, i'd have gone to the chiropodist....

enough of his biting comments....

HHfanatic · 19th July 2008, 02:16

This forum kind of make it more "normal" to wear heels..in a way...but I`m not out in the open yet...

roniheels · 19th July 2008, 02:58

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stilettoscot

Hard one to answer, as yes I was already wearing them out, I wasn't nearly as bold and styled as I am now! I thank this site for helping me out, so now I wear them out proud with a decent outfit with them, as opposed to just sneaking around at night and empty places!

I'm along these same lines as Scott. I have worn high heels and worn them in public for years with some trepidation. But after hearing so many other stories and experiences of men wearing high heels and especially in public, now for me the sky is the limit. I wear them proudly and enjoy the experiences and reactions.

johnieheel · 19th July 2008, 07:49

I was already street heeling but this site did motivate me to wear them much more often.

19th July 2008, 12:07

Last Sunday was the first time I wore stilettos in public and it felt good. So yes HHP did help me there.