Bubba136

Eloquently said, Shoeiee. If "newbie" would search back through the archives he will find a wealth of good advice -- which you've encapsulated into one posting.

(regards to "Elf")

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Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.

roniheels

Welcome. newbie. This website has many members, female and male, who enjoy viewing and wearing high heels and high heeled boots. I'm 54 years old, and I was wearing (my Mom's) high heels long before I turned 19. When I turned 19, thank heavens high heels were in style for both women and men and I wore them all of the time (men's high heeled shoes, that is). When that era passed, I moved on to more feminie high heels to wear both privately and publicly, which brings us to the present.

Mine is just one story. As you have read from others in this post, your feelings toward boot is not uncommon at all. Be happy and enjoy the visual and physical pleasures of high heels. Believe me, you are among friends here who share similar feelings.

Welcome again and hope to here more from you in the future.

flavio

Dear newbie, one more welcome to you!

Beeing afraid about heels in the age you are is completely normal and I'm sure that 99% of the male heelers here felt the same, me included.

You should be living under your parents roof and, of course, is a lot more difficult to be yourself without embarassement. When I was 24 and got my own flat to live in another city my freedom turned easier and I felt that my mind was my only jail.

About friends, girls and guys, always remember your mother. I'm pretty sure that she told you to choose well who you walk with in the past.

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Flavio - Freestyler in the night of São Paulo/Brazil

crotchboots-m

are you normal? i ask you,what the hell is that other than an arbitary figure. wanting to wear heeled boots puts you outside the bell shaped portion of the population distribution curve regarding the wearing of heeled boots(notice i did not call them womens boots. they are womens if a woman is wearing them. just had to stick that in). now having said that,lets discuss what is "normal" for you personally. and which is more important? the arbitrary designation or what you feel? so you have to decide who is going to make that designation...you or society as a whole. make no mistake about it,if you choose the easy way out,cowtowing to the pressures of the herd,you will blend in to that faceless mass without a problem. or you can be true to yourself and wear what you desire,what makes you happy. the choice is yours,and no one elses. each path has its cost.

Marcus

Hey newbie, I'm 19 too (well, in fact almost 19...)

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