Wearing High heels for him? - Page 2

roz · 24th June 2008, 07:42

I'm exactly the same as you Chrissy85. Everyone's a winner - I like wearing heels, my BF likes me wearing heels, I like him liking me wear heels and that's probably why about 1/3rd of my collection is just for me and my OH and has never left the house

laciheels · 28th June 2008, 01:53

i love to wear them because they empower me plus they drive men wild

Adeana · 29th June 2008, 06:06

I like wearing them for me, but I have worn heels for guys I have been with. last few guys I dated.....

One guy had a thing for high heels...and pretty much a foot fetish thing, and I found out later when we started dating that he initially hooked up with me because of the heels I had on at the club we met at. he actually got me a bunch of ones he liked and I wore them for him. Different styles and did the bedroom heels and wore others out when we went out that he got me or I knew he liked.

Another guy I dated for a while didn't really have a fetish or anything for them, but he liked them and knew that I did and I did it for the both of us....

jenniferhouston1 · 1st July 2008, 14:28

Yes and Yes. I do love heels, but I started wearing them for him. He loves to pamper me my buying me wonderful shoes, and I love looking well heeled for him.

Now do I ever feel like trading them for tennies when I am with all the other moms at school or at the park? Sure. And thats when I am wearing my heels for him. He wants me to be different from the sweat pant, flip flop wearing moms, and I do so.

So, its mutual, but at times I wear them to obey my husband. (I know, I know, that is so 1950s, but that is me :) )

KalikaInLeat · 7th July 2008, 14:21

well, as for me, I dont tend to keep my men long enough to let them a chance to dictate my behavior; but usually they get quite quickly I'm not the kind of girl who's gonna do what she's told to, you know...
but in the same time, I also might want to please him, so if I know he likes that or tha pair of high heeled shoes, yeah sure, let's wear them! but I dont like them becoming or embodying the power of the males over the women, you see?
It's like the corsets I LOVE corsets and bustiers, and so do men belive me; but I wear them for myself, because I like them (and because it's quite rare nowadays). I bet, if I were born in the past, when every woman HAD to wear one, I would have seen it as a torture thing and hate wearing one for I would have felt so subdued... stupid huh? this kind of overreaction, always, everuwhere, for everything and anything

Ana Paula · 7th July 2008, 19:53

Me too. Both love HH and hubby is fascinated on me in heel.

KalikaInLeat · 8th July 2008, 09:05

Fascination. That's the word. We women exerce fascination on men, sometimes we dont know why; but hell yeah HH help (and to keep on with my parallelism, so do corsets... even towards men you wouldnt think it would, well, fascinate them!) He's then so lovely, like a child, looking at you all amazed, almost blissful, touching slowly and delicately the very shoes (or corset), as if it were relics you know. Lucky we are to share the love of those little and aesthetic things

Adeana · 13th July 2008, 23:15

I like wearing them for him. The last 2 X BFs I had were into the high heel thing and it made it fun. I found out later that my last X BF actually started talking to me and asked me out because of the heels I had on and not because of me! He admitted it after we started dating and we got a laugh

Dancer Girl · 24th July 2008, 21:17

I am a 30 year old married lady from Canada. While my husband was always wondering about my heel fetish I know he now understands and even loves when I wear my ballet boots. Once in awhile we get out of town and I will spend 2-3 days in them completely and do everything from shop, go siteseeing to having dinner in them. I have a pair of wide leg slacks and a couple long skirts so I can wear them and have nobody see the shoes (although I walk like I have had case of beer or been hit over the head with a baseball bat so I am sure people wonder).