wolf

Hi.
Let's suppose a situation:
you're a man (hetero, non wearing heels) or a woman, and I'm a male friend of yours.

I just told you that I like wear heels and especially female heels.
What's the worst words you want to ask me?

(probabily I will not try to answer to your questions)
Thank you!

hh4evr1

First thought / question that came into my head was why do you want to wear them.

Bubba136

Second question if you were a man would be: "do you wear any other items of female clothing, too?"


(There is a danger here. When ever you tell someone that you engage in some sort of anti-social behavior, the immediate thought is that such deviation is directly connected to some kind of sexual disfunction. This has been demonstrated, over and over, again and again, right here in this forum by people reacting to male members wearing heels by asking "are you gay?" -- which is still regarded by the majority of society as being sexually devient and unacceptable, no matter what they might say about the subject in public just to be politically correct ------ despite the inroads the gay community "thinks" they have made towards "acceptability.)

__________________
Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.

yozz

How about: "What does your wife think of it?"

__________________
Raise your voice. Put on some heels.

aussieheels1

from a typical male.... "Are you gay?"

JeffB

This question I got a lot: "How do you stand in those things?" And it's usually women who ask that question----while wearing heels themselves! As if it takes some sort of complex talent only they possess. In a word: sheesh!!

pussyinboots

Do you consider men wearing ladies clothes as 'anti-social' then...???!!! I can think of hundreds of things far more anti-social than a guy in a skirt!!!


MY answer to the original question would be - "What size do you take - and what are your favourite/most comfortable styles?"

The typical male response of "Are you gay?" has already been posted.

__________________
"Lipstick, mini-skirt, high-heels - what more can a girl want!"

Dan J

Wolf: As you posed the question, I would be a male FRIEND of yours. As your friend, certainly I would be curious, and would probably come up with something corny or sarcastic like: "Is this a new look for you?" or "Trying out for a part in the theatre?"

But, above all else, as your friend, I should hope that I would be respectful of the friendship - even if somewhat confused. The first reply of "Why?" is the most honest and direct.

Dan

Bubba136

pussyinboots asked me:
Answer: I do not consider men wearing women's clothing to be "anti-social" since I wear heels and hose myself. I am just responding from my own experience.

Most people these days still regard any "abnormal" behavior to be sexually connected and anti-social -- regardless of the politically correct response they might give or (seemingly) to be totally ignoring it.

__________________
Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.

Ninanoora

Just reading bunch of replies, got me thinking.

If you feel its "Anti social behaviour", why would you ever want brought that up in first place, just for provocating? If you couldnt cope with the answers, replies, or questions that would follow after?

I believe those two questions mentioned before, are most common ones.

Depends on situation ofcourse.

Just my two kopiykas. :P

And for my answer for the question ..

Wow, nice shoos. where you got those?, Or LOL, Why your wearing those?

__________________
"Even when I'm a mess, I put on a vest... with an S on my chest, oh yes.. I'm a Superwoman.. "