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oh please not to worry
the day she accepts them is the day she forgets to notice I decided to just wear them on some outing..today she said "you seem kind of tall tonight are you wearing your spikeheels?"
.."nuh uhhh" ..so she had to look to be sure..lol
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but, seriously,
like many of you have mentioned previously... as we become accustomed to wearing them more the focus shifts away from the "event" and they become mostly just part of what makes our world go around...as we (pretend to) notice them less others are less likely to pay attention to our little drama being played out..
.so the question becomes: is wearing them a big deal or is it not..on one hand they are the Centers Of Our Universe so how can we possibly downplay them and pretend they are just somethng we wear on our feet??
how can the two opposite expressions co-exist??
comments??
J |