Originally Posted by Magickman

Hello Shoeman,

Have fun with shoes, whatever kind you like. Old tennies, dress oxfords, boots, or heels of any style, are all suitable. It is entirely a matter of what pleases you.

Some folks only wear their boots or heels in the house, and that is OK. Instead, I choose to take it out in the world, at the grocery, zoo, theater, restaurant, social events, and on dates.

How others see you is not simply a function of your footwear choice. People largely respond to the aura that you project. Cool confidence in yourself is what will attract women and make a positive impression. If you wear tall shoes, public reaction will not be uniform. Some folks will like it, and others not. What is more important is that you are doing what you like.

Others will accept you based more on the positive projection of your personality, than on your particular shoe style. If you wear what you like, and feel good doing it, then folks will pick up that you are happy and satisfied with yourself. That is attractive. It draws people into your orbit.

Strut your stuff in the shoes that make you feel good. Enjoy yourself. And remember, life is short, so you need not await someone else's approval to make yourself happy.