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Heelfan · 22nd June 2004, 06:40

Before this thread gets too advanced, I think we need to define the difference between simply having a liking for shoes and having a fetish for them:

HAVING A LIKING - Many women like shoes and have largeish shoes collections without this qualifying for being a fetish.

HAVING A FETISH - involves being sexually aroused by admiring, owning or wearing the shoes. This can become compulsive. In its most extreme form, a fetish for shoes or other objects can be added to (or even be a complete substitute for) the enjoyment of normal sex.

Regarding the latter (the true fetish), it used to appear to me that it was only men that ever had it. However, on her most impressive and ground-breaking "Jenny's High Stiletto" website, Jenny herself admits to having a sexual "Wet" when putting on particular high, sexy heels. Also, in Lucy's Story of her life in high heels (see below here on "Stories with a Heely Theme") Lucy very candidly admits to having experienced the same thing.

Can we ask any other lady members if they can be as candid as Jenny and Lucy, and tell us whether their shoe collections are the result of simply liking to dress up nicely, or whether their is an element of sexual "turn on" or compulsion. Your frankness would be most useful in furthering our understanding of the High Heel Phenomenon!

Cheerfully yours, Heelfan

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Heelfan I'm a Gold Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: South-West UK I am Male Posts: 1,583 Thanks: 0 Thanked 29 Times in 17 Posts Rep Power: 21	Before this thread gets too advanced, I think we need to define the difference between simply having a liking for shoes and having a fetish for them: HAVING A LIKING - Many women like shoes and have largeish shoes collections without this qualifying for being a fetish. HAVING A FETISH - involves being sexually aroused by admiring, owning or wearing the shoes. This can become compulsive. In its most extreme form, a fetish for shoes or other objects can be added to (or even be a complete substitute for) the enjoyment of normal sex. Regarding the latter (the true fetish), it used to appear to me that it was only men that ever had it. However, on her most impressive and ground-breaking "Jenny's High Stiletto" website, Jenny herself admits to having a sexual "Wet" when putting on particular high, sexy heels. Also, in Lucy's Story of her life in high heels (see below here on "Stories with a Heely Theme") Lucy very candidly admits to having experienced the same thing. Can we ask any other lady members if they can be as candid as Jenny and Lucy, and tell us whether their shoe collections are the result of simply liking to dress up nicely, or whether their is an element of sexual "turn on" or compulsion. Your frankness would be most useful in furthering our understanding of the High Heel Phenomenon! Cheerfully yours, Heelfan __________________ Onwards and upwards!