Been married for 22 years, have worn womens shoes (flats) the whole time, and my spouse has never had any problems with it - we even have some matching shoes!
Been wearing heels for about 4 years, she is OK with that too.
Have been wearing flats and heels in public, both alone and as a couple. Never get any stares or comments when in flats, but a few (very few) looks when in heels. It doesn't bother either of us.
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