Re: Guys - have you ever given this a thought Highestheels,
Hi, the answer is yes it helps if you are confident and happy with your own look.
I like what I do and I like the look I portray. I also enjoy being a bit of an exhibitionist in some ways. My philosophy is to be as equal to a woman on the lower half as I can be in terms of presentation, and if possible run some competition their way. I try to be equal or better than the rest of the women in a room, ie finer hosiery, silkier shinier bare legs with ankle jewellery, prettier heels, higher and finer heels, skirt hem-line to suit the heel height, cooridinated accessories. I really like it whan a woman is better presented than I am because they are a sight to behold!
I also place as much importance on my movement as I do on the clothing etc... as this is just as vital. I only wear shoes that I am confident I can do anything in, and can move in really well.
I don't won't to portray a clumsy image - and this does not help. If people look at me and think "oh my that is different" - I don't want them to follow it up with "and he can't even walk in those shoes!"
High Heels and femininity are all about grace.
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