well, as for me, I dont tend to keep my men long enough to let them a chance to dictate my behavior; but usually they get quite quickly I'm not the kind of girl who's gonna do what she's told to, you know...
but in the same time, I also might want to please him, so if I know he likes that or tha pair of high heeled shoes, yeah sure, let's wear them! but I dont like them becoming or embodying the power of the males over the women, you see?
It's like the corsets I LOVE corsets and bustiers, and so do men belive me; but I wear them for myself, because I like them (and because it's quite rare nowadays). I bet, if I were born in the past, when every woman HAD to wear one, I would have seen it as a torture thing and hate wearing one for I would have felt so subdued... stupid huh? this kind of overreaction, always, everuwhere, for everything and anything
