Originally Posted by heelma

I don't think that this is a fair question to ask. As a man, we have the main fear that someone humiliates us for wearing something men normally don't wear, etc - all the 1000x discussed issues. Yes, there are reasons for women to be afraid as well (as we saw in replies to this thread), but to me, this is all on a completely different level. A woman never has to worry that someone openly laughs at her for just wearing heels. It's more about "is this too slutty?", "are my heels too high for work?", etc. Compare that to "do I need to wear a suit when I go to work?" It's more a common dress code question.