 Re: online guests
There is one major difference between women and men when it comes to wearing high heels. Usually men wear heels for entirely different reasons than women do. My wife keeps telling me that to most women, high heels are just accessories chosen to match different outfits. The color and style of shoes match the color and style of dress as well as appropriate for the season. Sandals and more open styles for warm weather and boots, pumps and other closed styles for colder weather. Men, on the other hand, usually never chose heels to match their mode of dress. While a few members do make sure that they wear appropriate items that reflect a nice appearance, men don't usually choose the color or style of heels to match the style or color of suite they are wearing.
The difference between the way women view shoes (heels) and the way men usually view them, really accounts for the different level of women's participation in this forum. The level of excitement just isn't there in most women.
While I agree it would be wonderful to have more women participate in our discussions, we should count our blessings that we attract as many as women to this forum as we have.
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Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
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