Originally Posted by kneehighs

Just because they are pencil thin, doesn't mean that you have to feel limited in that everyone who sees you is laughing at you. To me, that would be akin to letting the heels wear you, not you wearing the heels.


In other words, you have to wear the stilettos, not let the stilettos wear you. You already know this Thighboots2, so I'm not addressing the latter directly at you, but at other readers of this post. The reason you are so successful at wearing thicker heels in public is because your attitude about yourself precedes your attire. Your comfort leads to confidence and people sense your confidence as much as -- or even before they sense -- your outfit.