Re: I need Help!!! I'm going mad! To qualify my statement - I am not a counseler nor do I claim to have any great insight, so here it goes.
You may have to give her some space, but let her know you are there for her and that you will always love her. Continue as close a relationship that gives her the freedom to choose. Once she has made that choice, be willing to support her. You both broke up for a reason and in her mind it is still valid. I know she may not choose for your side, but if this other person is as bad as you said, she will need some one to turn to later. If you have proven to be that special friend, who knows the possibilities.
Take care and best wishes, |