sevenup

Hi guys and gals, this is not at all related too shoes etc. but i need help/advice before i go completely crazy ,

I split up with a young woman Claire, in april 07, we ended our relationship by txt message basically over something very trivial, both stubborn as mules at the time and acted like 14 year olds ( although my son at 14 has probably more sense than me right now!). The thing is i consider my self pretty much a gentleman, i heard she had started seeing someone else, so i kept my distance , but we met at a new years party and fuelled by some encouragement from her friend and incidentally my neighbour i sat and chatted to her, her eyes seemed to light up, my heart started to race it felt like we had not been apart,at the end of the night i took her home and we kissed ,only kissed i will add, i said we would have too talk more!

We have talked more , several times more too be precise , her other man knows of my presecnce, she has been honest with him, i cannot fault her for that, we have actually slept together once ,it was a mad moment, he doesn't know this , thats all ,
she has actually said she is finding it difficult too finish with him but has said she will, she is still seeing him although not as regularly as she did before i arrived back on the scene.My problem is i want her now! i appreciate fully her predicament, she has been seeing him a while 5 to 6 months , i know he was unfaithfull to his wife before they separated and have told Claire, he lied too her about his past, How do i win this girl back , i realise now what an idiot i was in april, she is like a drug too me at the moment i need my weekly fix, i have told her all of this in heart felt letters , txt messages and in person,i am convinced we were meant too be together , she has admitted that there is chemistry between us but i am beginning to get paranoid about everything too do with her, . Just too clarify something though she is not the type of girl too just jump in too bed with anyone, she is an honest person , who has had 2 scumbag husbands in the past,who now finds herself the attention of 2 people.What do i do???

Do i not txt , do i leave her too call me , do i pester her about it, do i force her too make a decision,

Help!!!!!!!

Ladies and gentlemen your ideas are all welcome i hope you can ease my troubled mind, i don't mind personal questions if you feel the need too ask

Thanks for reading Andy