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Old 8th February 2008, 14:52   #4 (permalink)
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Hey Shortskip. I can appreciate where you're at right now and I just want you to know that it doesn't have to be this way.
It has taken me a long time to come to accept myself as I am and as I have I have come to know many who have been aware of me and my preferences all along and who also accept me as I am. I've also learned that those who rejected me don't matter.
Places like this have been a really big help in that process because I had never been able to discuss my feelings and preferences face-to-face with another man. I was worried about the assumptions that I might be gay or submissive or just a target for abuse. Those fears have proven to be unfounded but it takes time for that all to come about.
Hang in there buddy.
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